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KonMari 2016 - The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up

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  • tibawo
    tibawo Posts: 1,202 Forumite
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    Just thought I would add my input Fen. I am always comparing myself to others and feeling a failure at life, I look at how many years debt has been like a cold I just could not shift. I have culled my clothes but still have a drawer full of the ones for the new me. I am not ready to let them go yet but have tackled so many others areas, one of my big achievements is not buying bargains that aren't really and I Am about to give away a jumper to a local homeless place. This was hard as it held so many memories, I have worn it once in nine years and have talked myself round in this jumper might be the thing that keeps someone going over the winter. I hope the warmth of my happy memories in it help someone to get them back on their feet. I am putting this tale on here not for a pat on my back but to assure you that small steps and really looking back on things you can see that you have achieved and maybe not the failure we often perceive ourselves to be.
    Don’t put it down - put it away!

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  • greenbee
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    My dad died on Tuesday, and we're sorting through his clothes (slowly, as I don't want my mother to give away things she'll regret later). Having found the stuff we want him to wear (not sure what the undertakers will thing - its not his best suit, but his scruffy old sailing clothes!), we're going to start slowly clearing out by finding things to give to the local homeless charity. I spoke to them, and they need socks, gloves, hats, trousers, jumpers, coats etc. I also said we'd drop them off in batches so they're not inundated - they've had lots of sleeping bags, duvets and pillows in so are short of storage space.
  • Siebrie
    Siebrie Posts: 2,971 Forumite
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    edited 2 December 2016 at 8:01PM
    The school has put in a request for toys to send to a children's charity to provide for children who don't / can't celebrate St Nicolas or Christmas. I'll ask dds tonight which toys we will donate, to make space for the new toys they will get tomorrow night.

    ETA: sorry to hear about your dad, greenbee.
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  • Slinky
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    Sorry to hear about your Dad greenbee
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  • Knit_Witch
    Knit_Witch Posts: 4,436 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your Dad Greenbee (gentle hugs)
    Must use my stash up!
  • silvasava
    silvasava Posts: 4,433 Forumite
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    Ah Greenbee - so sorry. I know it was expected but it doesn't help the loss. Do love that your Dad will be in his old sailing clothes - just the way he liked to be. Huge Hugs xx
    Small victories - sometimes they are all you can hope for but sometimes they are all you need - be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle
  • GreyQueen
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    :( (((((((((greenbee))))))))) thinking of you at this sad time. And I love the idea of your Dad in his sailing clothes, too, and the useful stuff with the homeless charity.
    Every increased possession loads us with a new weariness.
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  • VJsmum
    VJsmum Posts: 6,999 Forumite
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    Thinking of you, Greenbee
    I wanna be in the room where it happens
  • MMF007
    MMF007 Posts: 1,375 Forumite
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    Oh Greenbee ((((((0)))))).
    I have changed my work-life balance to a life-work balance. :grin:
  • Eltee12
    Eltee12 Posts: 768 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your dad Greenbee. we lost our lovely dad in October so know the dilemma of sorting out clothes etc.


    It will all come together in the end.


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