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  • LANGO1966
    LANGO1966 Posts: 2,054 Forumite
    Ratners, Telefusion and Saxone:beer:
  • mhoc
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    An announcement

    My eldest and her BF got engaged yesterday - he proposed on the steps of the minster :j
    They had their graduation ceremony there just over 5 years ago so it has great significance for them - un officially they have been together for 6 years including the extra year at uni.

    So she rang us this afternoon and they want to get married sooner rather than later - not in the next 2 weeks obviously :D

    Her initial figure is around £5 k - they don't want a wildly extravagant gypsy style wedding

    She has organised numerous conferences and work based events both up north and in London so organising and negotiating a wedding will be an extension of the skills she has already learned but without the no holds barred budget :)

    So to save her stress I just transferred the money across and then we rang her back.

    OH asked her when we rang back if BF had had the conversation with his parents - don't think so.
    But eldest child spoke to his mum and she said they had not talked about it yet - no idea why not because it was inevitable they would get engaged at some stage - but she said they would probably go with a 1/3 1/3 1/3 split :eek:

    Bear in mind BFs dad is earning over £100 k a year and eldest child said he had saved 100k so far for his retirement -

    (Yes I know in the dark ages brides parents paid for everything but its 2016 in less than a week and mostly kids mostly pay for their own weddings now)

    Any hints and tips for budget weddings which still look spectacular would be appreciated :)
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  • bubbs
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    edited 28 December 2015 at 8:09PM
    mhoc wrote: »
    An announcement

    My eldest and her BF got engaged yesterday - he proposed on the steps of the minster :j
    They had their graduation ceremony there just over 5 years ago so it has great significance for them - un officially they have been together for 6 years including the extra year at uni.

    So she rang us this afternoon and they want to get married sooner rather than later - not in the next 2 weeks obviously :D

    Her initial figure is around £5 k - they don't want a wildly extravagant gypsy style wedding

    She has organised numerous conferences and work based events both up north and in London so organising and negotiating a wedding will be an extension of the skills she has already learned but without the no holds barred budget :)

    So to save her stress I just transferred the money across and then we rang her back.

    OH asked her when we rang back if BF had had the conversation with his parents - don't think so.
    But eldest child spoke to his mum and she said they had not talked about it yet - no idea why not because it was inevitable they would get engaged at some stage - but she said they would probably go with a 1/3 1/3 1/3 split :eek:

    Bear in mind BFs dad is earning over £100 k a year and eldest child said he had saved 100k so far for his retirement -

    (Yes I know in the dark ages brides parents paid for everything but its 2016 in less than a week and mostly kids mostly pay for their own weddings now)

    Any hints and tips for budget weddings which still look spectacular would be appreciated :)

    Congratulations to them:T:T:T
    There is a wedding board;)

    EDIT found it
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/forumdisplay.php?s=&daysprune=&f=142
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  • pippo wrote: »
    Enjoy!!
    At least you didn't put it in the freezer to 'chill quickly' and then forget about it, like we did a few years ago!

    :rotfl:there wasn't any room, that's why it ended up in the garden :D I'm pretty sure TS had that problem this year:rotfl:
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  • P2TKL
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    TrulyMadly wrote: »
    Is there such a place as Timothy Whites?

    think that's what I was thinking of

    Yes....I remember Timothy Whites chemist back in the good old days...ha ha
  • TrulyMadly
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    mhoc wrote: »
    An announcement

    My eldest and her BF got engaged yesterday - he proposed on the steps of the minster :j
    They had their graduation ceremony there just over 5 years ago so it has great significance for them - un officially they have been together for 6 years including the extra year at uni.

    So she rang us this afternoon and they want to get married sooner rather than later - not in the next 2 weeks obviously :D

    Her initial figure is around £5 k - they don't want a wildly extravagant gypsy style wedding

    She has organised numerous conferences and work based events both up north and in London so organising and negotiating a wedding will be an extension of the skills she has already learned but without the no holds barred budget :)

    So to save her stress I just transferred the money across and then we rang her back.

    OH asked her when we rang back if BF had had the conversation with his parents - don't think so.
    But eldest child spoke to his mum and she said they had not talked about it yet - no idea why not because it was inevitable they would get engaged at some stage - but she said they would probably go with a 1/3 1/3 1/3 split :eek:

    Bear in mind BFs dad is earning over £100 k a year and eldest child said he had saved 100k so far for his retirement -

    (Yes I know in the dark ages brides parents paid for everything but its 2016 in less than a week and mostly kids mostly pay for their own weddings now)

    Any hints and tips for budget weddings which still look spectacular would be appreciated :)

    How lovely mhoc.....well if anyone can do it, it will be you with a little elite help
    Fabulous news:T
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  • Snap-ant
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    :)

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  • mhoc wrote: »
    I would see this £30 limit as a challenge to get the most impressive biggest collection of things for £30 eg- Harrods £15 bag plus contents :D

    Exactly but obviously not everyone thinks like us.
    Whilst I love to grab a bargain or a glitch I would never pass that onto the recipient.
  • mhoc
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    bubbs wrote: »
    Congratulations to them:T:T:T
    There is a wedding board;)

    Excellent - I will go and find it.

    I think I will have to start concentrating on wedding competitions as well :)
    “Create all the happiness you are able to create; remove all the misery you are able to remove. Every day will allow you, --will invite you to add something to the pleasure of others, --or to diminish something of their pains.”
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