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Weekly Flylady Thread 7th December 2015

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  • Mumof2_2
    Mumof2_2 Posts: 2,694 Forumite
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    Eugh - don't think I'm quite 100% - sore eyes, headache, feel a bit shivery and I know it sounds weird but when I did my roll on deoderant under my arms hurt. That apart I was the first one up and dressed and have a load in the WM, done the ironing (will be more to come when this lot that's in the WM is dry), helped S with his Christmas cards and put breakfast dishes into DW.

    Feel like I'm treading on eggshells around J; I showed him what I've done in the extension and apparently it's OK but now he's busy packing to go skiing next weekend. I asked re Thursday and what provoked him so badly (Cubs - when I told him I've cancelled it) and he said he was so angry because he was tired and stressed re the meeting yesterday. Why didn't he tell me about it before? And apparently he has 'a plan' which I've messed up due to properly handing in notice but he's still intending to beaver away at it. What bit of S is stopping Cubs because he doesn't enjoy it doesn't he understand? So he's still controlling things and not listening and I'm still feeling sad and disillusioned with marriage.

    Going to make us a sandwich for lunch and then do cooked dinner I think. Want to see Strictly tonight - I have Georgia and Giovanni on a sweep stakes so really want them to get to the final!!

    Hugs to all; I did read what you've all posted but my poor spinny head has forgotten it all, sorry.
    Flymarkeeteer: £168 and counting
  • Dustykitten
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    Back from shopping, few more bits got. Large pt returned, huge pot purchased.

    Going to have a cuppa and mince pie and then tidy LR to get the tree in from the rain.

    DS1 over playing cricket with DS3 on the driveway in the rain.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • pigpen
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    Mumof2.. at least you got a reply .. keep chipping away ..

    DS3 had another meltdown.. second in 2 days.. I think I need to be back on the phone to CAMHS on Monday.... I do NOT have time for this rubbish!
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  • Mumof2_2
    Mumof2_2 Posts: 2,694 Forumite
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    Put the presents on the spreadsheet I made up for last year to see how much I've spent and all seems fine. Need to get Z to pack up her bag ready for trip to Holland on Thursday and make it as easy as she can as I have to get her to school for 7.15am :eek: and of course S will have to come too as can't leave him home alone. Luckily he's an early riser.
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  • Frizzlef
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    We all had a bit of a blitz of the house this morning so kitchen, dining room and living room looking a lt more presentable.

    OH has given the nursery a second coat of emulsion and wanted to do the ceiling next but he got distracted by the smelly sink. Whilst investigating it, something broke, which has resulted in him going out to get a part for it!

    I have filled the holes in the playroom coving so that can be emulsions tomorrow as well.

    This afternoon I want to pop out to get some lights for the little trees outside, put up the downstairs tree, write some cards and wrap some pressies.

    Kazwookie- I think you are right. I need to prioritise and not worry about the things I can't do! Especially with Christmas and decorating going on as well.

    Nursery needs to be finished this weekend as the carpet is being fitted in Wednesday and then we need to get all the furniture put up so we can get it out of our bedroom which is currently a complete tip!

    just had a quick catch up on the thread. Hugs to all in need.
    Left the house at 730 his morning for a round trip to gatwick. Got back at 1pm. Quick tidy and Hoover before the man came to measure up for carpets. Then had a cuppa and a breather. Got to get ds1 now and then will wrap some pressies I need for tomorrow before going out for work Christmas meal at 6pm.

    Here is my list....

    Monday ~ Grotty Kitchen and Gloomy Dining Room
    Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
    Wrap any presents you need before the 25th, gifts for teachers or friends.

    Extras
    Don't forget any cards posted!
    Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its
    Dust and Deweb

    Christmas Extras
    Finalise those last minute presents you have to buy..
    Wrap all the presents for family/friends
    Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!

    Tuesday ~ Luscious Living Room, hallway, stairs
    Tidy the baubles and lights on the tree.. OR PUT UP YOUR TREE

    Extras
    Finalise your christmas menu and shopping list
    Defluff and deweb these rooms

    Christmas Extras
    Stick all your cards up
    Christmas wrapping, try and get at least a few done

    Wednesday ~ Brilliant Bathroom,
    Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins!
    Declutter floors
    Wash bathmats

    Extras -
    Clear a hotspot, if it's bad at least spend 10 minutes on it
    HHI
    Spend 30 minutes just having time for yourself, whatever it is doing.
    Fling boogies are here again, aim for 27 items to leave the house!

    Christmas Extras
    Bake pies and buns!
    Sort childrens presents into separate bags so they are easier for santa to sort
    Last check of the present list, have you got everything

    Thursday ~ Master messroom! and landing
    30 minutes floor drobe/junk clearing!
    Vacuum and turnthe mattress, vacuum the landing and floor
    Remake the bed

    Extras
    HHI
    Update remaining present lists

    Christmas Extras
    Spend 30 minutes just having time for yourself, whatever it is doing, because we probably won't have time next week
    Update remaining present lists
    Grocery challenge- feb 2015- £133.07/£250
  • dancemum
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    Is it bedtime yet?

    Wmx1 done
    House henried
    Dance classes taught
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    I've got as far as putting the lights on the tree, in that time DH has told me he's turned vegetarian and my Sis has said she does not want to come for Christmas. The fact that the gingers are chewing the lights already seems quite trivial.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • pigpen
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    I've got as far as putting the lights on the tree, in that time DH has told me he's turned vegetarian and my Sis has said she does not want to come for Christmas. The fact that the gingers are chewing the lights already seems quite trivial.


    Fewer people to cook for! Bonus!

    Suppose I should feed peeps...
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • Honey_Bear
    Honey_Bear Posts: 7,487 Forumite
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    pigpen wrote: »
    BTDT .. lol.. evil, nasty stuff!!

    What does BTDT mean?
    Valli wrote: »
    we made just short of £2K!

    Boss has been implored NOT to spin it to £2K - because I'm the one who pays it into the bank!

    To quote you, Wooty wooty woot woot woot! Jolly well done, Valli.
    I've got as far as putting the lights on the tree, in that time DH has told me he's turned vegetarian and my Sis has said she does not want to come for Christmas. The fact that the gingers are chewing the lights already seems quite trivial.

    (((Hugs))), and that goes for Mumto2 as well.

    Last card posted, last present wrapped, OH's birthday shopping commenced (6 January, a right bore if I leave it until after Christmas, fabulous if I get it all done before), WM x 1 all pegged out and blown about even though it's been mizzling all day so it's a bit drier than when it went out but not much, decorating spree planned at best pals house for a bank holiday weekend next year, shower room finished, superking ready for panto muso arriving tomorrow night. Poor thing, she's driving down from Inverness!

    Devil Cat can't, apparently, tolerate one of the new super-expensive tins of food he tried this morning. I had no idea cats could projectile vomit.
    Better is good enough.
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    What does BTDT mean?

    .

    been there, done that (WTTS - worn the tee shirt)(WTB - wrote the book) (STF - seen the film)
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
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