Can I Fix This?

Jo4

As your sister says it is your call but good luck with your decision!!

boredofbeingathome

Ellidee wrote: »

Hi Ciara as Bob (above !) says your sister has given you good advice yet again. Best to find out now how he will react - altho I don't think that your debt now is anything out of the ordinary. Good luck and keeping everything crossed for you X El

I do like BOB it reminds me of Rowan atkinson in blackadder, when he shouts bob, in thatfunny way of his:rotfl:

Ellidee

:j Bob ! Yes he used to form his mouth in that funny way to say it. - sort of stretched his top lip down ? But wasn't 'Bob' in Blackadder really a girl pretending to be a boy ? :rotfl:

EDIT Sorry for the hijack Ciara !

boredofbeingathome

That's the one, and as i have been looking for an avatar i may well use Rowan Atinkinson- it may totally confuse everyone and they will think i am a boy as opposed to a girl- very useful at times when i want to hide my identity:D I do love blackadder and my dd named our dog bob, so very apt:T
ps sorry for hijackxx

boredofbeingathome

Have added an avatar- as promised-Bobx

tiredandanxious

he says it that way cos he used to stutter and thats his way of sayingit, i do the same myself:D

ciarasdreams

I did it although I was not feeling nearly as brave or as confident about doing it as I should have been and I was so nervous that I thought about not doing it after all and leaving it for later but then there would be no point in doing that so I just blurted out the whole story from start to now without even stopping to catch my breath instead. His reaction was definitely a positive one once we had talked through why I felt that I needed to tell him and he even seemed a bit hurt that I had thought that he would maybe walk away over something as he put it "as insignificant as not being very good at paying your bills on time".

Ellidee

Aww Ciara I thought he would be a good 'un. It must be such a relief for you now it's all out in the open. Anyway it's not like you murdered someone is it for goodness sake! If only the perfect were allowed to be happy none of us would be IYSWIM. Please be kind to yourself and enjoy your lovely fella. X El

Jo4

I bet that is a load of your mind!!

ciarasdreams

Ellidee wrote: »

Aww Ciara I thought he would be a good 'un. It must be such a relief for you now it's all out in the open. Anyway it's not like you murdered someone is it for goodness sake! If only the perfect were allowed to be happy none of us would be IYSWIM. Please be kind to yourself and enjoy your lovely fella. X El

Thank you I kind of think that somehow I knew myself that his reaction would be good and thankfully I was actually right for once.:o He understood that I was worried that him not knowing about something that is such a huge part of my life could have a negative impact on our relationship because in the future it might lead to him wondering about what else I am not telling him about. It might not be the right thing for everybody to do but I feel so much better for telling him because after my previous relationship the one and only thing that I will ever look for in somebody is an ability to be honest and truthful and know that they are completely trustworthy. He was really sweet about the whole thing though and is coming back later to take me out for dinner after I have finished my work for my second job and he also told me that he thinks that what I have achieved so far is completely amazing.