Wedding risk assessment?

Mojisola

scurr wrote: »

Well I've just had my first Friday night without babysitting since the end of August and I didn't know what to do with myself.

It's also the first Friday night that they haven't been free to go out while you babysit. I wonder how long they will want that to continue?

scurr

Thank you. I have stepped right back. They deleted me on Facebook on day one and I have deleted their phone numbers so I can't give in to a moment of madness (obviously I've written my son's number down - I would never turn my back on him but neither am I going to beg )
Waiting game now and it's torment.

piglet25

Pair of self centred fools! If your son is happy to be played like a fiddle and not man up then there is little anyone can do except to wait for him to grow a pair. At least they will be able to bond with the baby they have been happy to bring to you while they spend every weekend with her

Topcat1982

She sounds very manipulative.

TBH I think money is the root of all this, that the gran wouldn't give them the money they demanded (and why should she?). Don't back down

scurr

I have backed down. I have backed down as much as anyone could because nothing matters to me more than having a relationship with my 4 month old granddaughter. I have apologised for being judgmental when I should have been supportive and haven't mentioned any of the awful stuff they have done.
They have blocked my number so I can't phone them, my son shut the door in my face when I took round some more of the baby's things and they have ignored letters.
I am contacting a Family Mediation Centre on Monday but doubt that will make any difference.

Topcat1982

scurr wrote: »

I am contacting a Family Mediation Centre on Monday but doubt that will make any difference.

Grandparents do have rights now so hopefully it will