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Friday 30th October - what small DFW things will you be doing today
PurpleFairy26
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When we start out on the DFW trail we do loads of "big stuff" that makes quite a difference to our situation. These include having our lightbulb moment, cutting up the credit cards and cancelling Sky and the gym .
But once we have done the bigger stuff, we often feel that we are not making the same amount of progress, when in fact the small steps are helping us form good financial habits and helping us get closer everyday to staying in control and becoming debt free, or staying debt free.
Examples could be hanging washing out instead of using the tumble dryer or leaving your purse/wallet at home to avoid the risk of spending.
So be proud of those small steps, they really are important.
But once we have done the bigger stuff, we often feel that we are not making the same amount of progress, when in fact the small steps are helping us form good financial habits and helping us get closer everyday to staying in control and becoming debt free, or staying debt free.
Examples could be hanging washing out instead of using the tumble dryer or leaving your purse/wallet at home to avoid the risk of spending.
So be proud of those small steps, they really are important.
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Morning everyone :hello: I don't know if it's because I'm on my pad but it won't let me put a smile in the title, it just defaults it to the message - sorry DNMS

Hope everyone is good, very drab and rainy here, hope it brightens later, for the mood if nothing else
list for today:
Try and make PAD I couldn't last night
Update my spreadsheet
Try and pop to Mr S both for a few bits and get a couple of items for DD whilst clothes are 25% off, look for some stocking filler too
Go to wholesaler and get both girls Christmas present, hopefully they will still have it, it's half price to everywhere else I've seen it, it's very reasonable and weve decided we're just getting that one present for each of them
Meals from stores
Visiting friend later, can walk, will take bottle of wine I was gifted
Washing rotated on radiator whilst on, they dry pretty quick so should be able to do load in a hour and then switch it off.
Eldest wanted seconds of breakfast as same variety as littlest had left, quick swap of bowls and some fresh on top and no one was any the wiser :rotfl:
Foxgloves really enjoying your blog, your garden sounds wonderful, I wish I had time for a big garden and to grow all your goodies. ** wanders off with some garden and growing envy **
Enjoy your day everyone
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Hi All
Thanks for starting us off. IT IS FRIDAY!!
Tomorrow is chicken buying day. Hoping for a few gorgeous dinosaurs to give me some eggs over the winter.
Should be a nsd day, work and knitting only. Need to get up and get going and get machines on. I have missed cheap rate electric. So bad.
Have a great weekend everyone.
Maria x0 -
ha ha I'll forgive you jonno!
Things for today:
*[STRIKE] submit ms report[/STRIKE]
* do another ms assignment & file report
* submit a couple of job applications
* hopefully get some time in the garden
* wash out a waitrose coffee cup and put with gardening things ready for spring planting :j & also a piece of string and a couple of ties that came off of dgd's halloween bits
* make boeuf bourguingnon this afternoon & slow cook
* cook braised red cabbage in the SC
* [STRIKE]remind oh to put his housekeeping in the account & give me a list of spends that he has made the last week[/STRIKE]
*[STRIKE]OLB[/STRIKE] yippee! Received £166 ms payments for last month :j
* load of washing & put on airer
Ok that's all I think I'll have time for. Have a lovely Friday everyone xDF as at 30/12/16
Wombling 2026: £25.70
Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
GC annual £389.25/£2700
Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
Extra cash earned 2026: £1850 -
Morning everyone
OK confession time. I have put the tumble drier on. Its pouring down again here and I havent managed to get any washing outside for days.
Going out with the boys today, need to keep a close eye on the spending. Mum has asked if we are going to see the fireworks in their village tomorrow night. We usually do go but its £4 each which is a lot for what's there. Will decide later.
Going to get tea in the slow cooker before we go out.
Thanks for the tip about Mr S jonno. Might be worth a look there at coats for DS.
Suppose I had better get some breakfast and move myself! Have a good day everyone x0 -
I have a confession too... We got a takeaway last night. Mood was low, oh was hungry and prepared to pay...DF as at 30/12/16
Wombling 2026: £25.70
Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
GC annual £389.25/£2700
Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
Extra cash earned 2026: £1850 -
A lot has happened Chez Moi in the past 12 months, but I'm hoping to cut costs again...
Today I've brought my packed lunch to work and snacks and drinks.
I do need to pay my car parking bill £10, but that is a planned expense.
With the weather so inclement, and washing still damp three days after being washed, I've come to the conclusion that I need to invest in a tumble drier; one that has an excellent energy rating, doesn't cost too much to buy and isn't ridiculously expensive to run once in a while (when the weather is too bad to dry outside)!
Hope it's a good day for everyone.
Cat.xDFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
never attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
the thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*
March GC £113.53 / £3250 -
Good Morning Everyone
Jonno - Thanks for starting us off
Hi to all of the regulars and a BIG welcome to all the newbies, this is a really FAB thread with so many lovely, caring, considerate and supportive people.
Gosh, it's grim here again - rain and so dark,
Packed lunch for DH
Clean patio doors (glass)
Bump all sale listings/freecycle/facebook
Craft ?
Cinema trip ? (Spectre - using giftcards we were given )
Check Banks
Continue purge on Emails
Surveys
Enter a few comps
All meals from cupboards/fridge/freezer
Read book
Check https://www.freepostcodelottery.com - Remember there are now 5 chances to win
Check Lucky Phone
Have a good day!
C x
Goodreads 2025 Challenge :16/75
Goodreads 2024 Challenge: 65/80
Goodreads 2023 Challenge: 77/520 -
Good morning everyone

It's the last day of half term
but it is payday!!! :j:j:j I have survived a skint October - now just a skint November to get through as well.
While we're all on with confessions - I'm taking the kids out for lunch today because we've done barely anything this holiday and we like an occasional lunch out.
Not bringing dh though - he currently looks like he lives on the streets and I don't want to be associated with him... 
Today's list
check banking and PAD :j
take kids pumpkin carving
load of washing in but we too are bucketing with rain today
check all of my free lottery stuff
take coin jar to bank and use it to PAD to my emergency fund
pay for everything in cash - I'm using envelopes as well as YNAB this month
get dh to the doctors this afternoon
I think that's it - have a brilliant day everyoneNot giving up
Working hard to pay off my debt
Time to take back control
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6290156/crazy-cat-lady-chapter-5-trying-to-recover-from-the-pandemic/p1?new=10 -
Morning folks,
Thanks for all the well wishes yesterday. It went ok but it was very sad. It was the first funeral that I've been to where we weren't expecting the person to die so it was very hard. Also sat down and opened the order of service sheet to discover that I was doing a reading!! I wasn't actually fazed as I do a lot of presentations and meetings with clients etc in work so I'm used to public speaking. I've also done readings and eulogies at funerals before so I thought I would be ok. Totally wasn't and sobbed through the whole thing, was a tad annoyed with myself but I don't think that anyone would think the less of me for it.
Onto more pleasant things today. Some mse, some not:- B/L/D from stores - really need to do some cooking. I don't have the oomph at the moment. Lots of picky snacky teas.
- Charge phone in work
- Upgraded my Vodafone plan to include more minutes. It will be £4.50 a month more but unlimited minutes.
- Think about food required for Christmas party

- Crochet - had to undo 6 rows last night as realised I'd made a mistake *cry*
- Payday today! More than I thought (woohoo) so will sit with OH after tea and do the budget

LBM 11/06/2010: DFD 30/04/2013Total repaid: £10,490.310 -
Carrie it's hard when someone you wasn't expecting to die dies. I've found it very hard since my mother died and we weren't close. Be gentle on yourself xDF as at 30/12/16
Wombling 2026: £25.70
Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
GC annual £389.25/£2700
Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
Extra cash earned 2026: £1850
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