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What do you do when there are trust issues?

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  • burlington6
    burlington6 Posts: 2,111 Forumite
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    You have been reading his texts and snooping!

    If this was a bloke doing it to his girlfriend the forum would explode.

    In my opinion, he probably does flirt with other women, watch !!!!!! and perv on girls in the street BUT.....you aren't doing yourself any favours by acting so needy and insecure.

    The best way to get someones attention is to remove yours!
  • VestanPance
    VestanPance Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    AndyBSG wrote: »
    Sorry but that just doesn't sound true at all.

    People who use prostitute websites are by their very nature fairly discrete about it and not prone to posting in depth descriptions of what they got up to for fear of getting caught.

    On the other hand, the internet is awash with free !!!!!! on other sites.

    So why look on a prostitute web site which isn't designed as a !!!!!! site but is designed specifically for facilitating encounters when there are sites out there designed specifically for what he claims he was after?

    He may not have actually gone through with anything but if he was looking then he was certainly considering it.

    Of course, if he did go through with an encounter(working late one night, during his lunch hour, easy ways to do it without you suspecting) then lord knows what STD risks he's exposed you to like herpes, syphilis, pubic lice, etc that condoms don't protect against.

    If he's like this now still early on in the relationship then what is he going to be like in a years time?

    If he hasn't cheated on your or visited a prostitute then I fear it is only a matter of time because he clearly isn't happy with what he has now.

    This is spot on.

    His excuse is the modern day equivalent of saying he bought Playboy for the articles!
  • Wow,

    Do women still fall for this sort of guff?
  • I fear he'll dump you the minute his course is over and he doesn't need you to pay the rent. In the meantime, he'll party on like a single guy while you sit at home worrying.

    Sad to say it very much sounds as though he's using you and will continue to come up with excuses to try to cover himself. It doesn't seem that he truly respects or loves you.
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