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The worlds worst meal planner!

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Please help! I have tried and tried sooo many times and i am officially rubbish and i am begging you all for your help, if someone mentions the words meal plan at me i glaze over but my other half has just moved out as we are having problems and i don't have as much in the kitty for food as i did.

There's three of us and we eat fairly simple veg based dishes, like med veg sauce, made into bolognase or just served with couscous and mozzerella. Als things like pasta and sauce and veg baked in oven, shep pie.

Can't think of anything else at the mo, but we eat mostly veg based dishes where i can hide veggies from kids.!!!

So there's me, dd ages 8, and ds aged 4.

What i don't understand is that if i give myself a budget, and actually get to the rate occasion where i have found all that i am going to eat for dinner that week and written it down, when i get in tesco i don't know how much it is going to cost and i put it on my card, along with the other one million things that i have piled into the trolley.

Aren't i awful, i'm really trying to be good, i need to work out how much it will cost before i go there so i can have just that money on me,

How do you guys go about it.

Many thanks

Trying to cut down my £200 spend!

Carli x
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  • danielle24
    danielle24 Posts: 169 Forumite
    What I do is sit down on Sunday arvo with my OH and make a list of what we want to eat for dinner each night and the ingredients we need. I try to add a few things like bolognese sauce or chilli or lasagne or risotto or soup that we can make twice as much of easily and freeze for later when we are going to be late home etc. Then we go to Tesco via Quidco and buy everything we need online - this stops us impulse buying as we can see what we've spent so far. We don't buy fruit and veggies online though as we've got a local stall where we can get it all cheaper. We have that list of meals on the fridge and refer to it each night.
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  • tifnstav
    tifnstav Posts: 441 Forumite
    I tend to go through the storecupboard with a few ideas then do my meal plans (only roughly though), eg need fish, prawns, eggs etc then I'll do the proper definite plans based on what we're up to that week. for instance if i've got clients due in the next day i wouldn't do a mega garlicky dish.
    anyway, after the rough plan is done i check online to get a rough idea of how much the shop is going to cost.
    then i stick rigidly to the plan unless i see some non-perishables on offer (like toothpaste and washing up liquid).
    we get all our fruit and veg from the market though, its much better and cheaper and doesn't go off as quickly.
    we spend about £70 a month on two of us for food, but I have built up a nice stock of herbs and spices to make meals more interesting.
    oh and a great tip is to use the BBC food website - put in three ingredients and it gives you a list of recipes using them.
  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Hi

    I dont eat in a particularly conventional way. However, I do have a basic 14 day meal plan to hand, which would probably be good as a base for you to work from, ie:

    LUNCHES
    1. Soup, egg mayonnaise
    2. Lamb casserole, baked potatoes, grated cheese
    3. Pate, salad, nice bread
    4. Soup, baked eggs
    5. Ham salad
    6. Hamburgers
    7. Omelettes
    8. Grilled mackerel and grilled tomatoes
    9. Roast lamb and jacket potatoes
    10. Toasted lamb sandwiches
    11. Sausages and chips
    12. Soup and bread
    13. Egg and bacon flan
    14. Cauliflower cheese

    DINNERS
    1. Roast chicken and roast potatoes
    2. Cold chicken and rice, salad
    3. Onion tart, salad
    4. Spaghetti bolognaise
    5. Shepherds pie
    6. Boiled gammon and mashed potatoes
    7. Liver and bacon and vegetables
    8. Steak and kidney pie
    9. Haricot bean salad with hardboiled eggs and olives
    10. Chicken pie
    11. Baked eggs and vegetable stew
    12. Lamb chops and vegetables
    13. Meat casserole
    14. Cod steamed with bacon/tomatoes/garlic

    You probably wouldnt want to follow it to the letter - but it could be a useful base to work from to work out your own 14 day plan, whilst you build up your repertoire and confidence. I would suggest working out your own equivalent plan and working out what ingredients you would need to have in cupboard for it and go from there.
  • Newgirl_2
    Newgirl_2 Posts: 367 Forumite
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    tifnstav wrote: »
    I tend to go through the storecupboard with a few ideas then do my meal plans (only roughly though), eg need fish, prawns, eggs etc then I'll do the proper definite plans based on what we're up to that week. after the rough plan is done i check online to get a rough idea of how much the shop is going to cost.
    then i stick rigidly to the plan unless i see some non-perishables on offer (like toothpaste and washing up liquid)..


    I do something like this with a slight variation...

    I remember reading a home organisation book once - it had a section on how to organise your shopping and meal times - it suggested you get an index card box (not too expensive from Tesco/Asda or similar, or you could make one) and when you have a meal you like write down the ingredients and recipe. When you have 14 or 21 or whatever number you like, you can then mix them up and choose your week's meals. I did a variation on this and I look at my cupboard and then choose from my stock list of meals. Once you have bought spices/herbs etc you have them to hand. you can then make the most of what is on offer.

    Say chicken is on offer, i will pull out some recipes making use of this. I also like double batch cooking for the freezer. And I definitely agree with online shopping so you can't impulse buy.

    Hope this helps.

    Newgirl.
  • thriftlady_2
    thriftlady_2 Posts: 9,128 Forumite
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    I think I read that book Newgirl, it wasn't called Confessions of an Organised Housewife was it ?

    I can't menu plan either -it doesn't work for me. I like making a plan, but then I always have a better idea than the one I planned. I plan around what I have rather than buy for a plan. That way when I change my mind we still eat the fish/chicken/beans or whatever was planned just in a different way.

    Basically (if that doesn't make sense) I have a storecupboard list from which I can make a huge variety of meals. I just make sure I have everything on my list in. So, when something gets used up it goes on the list. I'm pretty flexible about what meat and fish I have in (the freezer usually).

    I posted my storecupboard list ages ago, I'll try and find it if it will help.

    Another way to plan is to have a different category for each day of the week. For example;

    Monday pasta and veg sauce
    Tuesday stir-fry and rice
    Wednesday pulse and veg curry and rice
    Thursday grilled meat, baked spuds, salad
    Friday hm veggie pizza
    Saturday mince dish
    Sunday roast lunch
    This should allow for some flexibility.
  • thriftlady_2
    thriftlady_2 Posts: 9,128 Forumite
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    Bread flour –wholemeal, white
    Plain flour –wholemeal, white
    Self-raising flour
    Oats
    Yeast, baking powder, bicarb
    Gelatine, suet
    Cornflour
    Granulated sugar
    Demerara
    Soft brown sugar
    Golden syrup
    cocoa
    Sunflower seeds
    Raisins
    Sultanas,
    Dried apricots

    UHT milk (for yogurt)
    Dried milk (for yogurt)
    orange and apple juice
    Tea, coffee

    Rice –basmati, Arborio, pudding
    Pasta -short pasta, long flat pasta, spaghetti
    Barley
    Popcorn
    Lentils –red, green,Puy
    Split peas
    Chickpeas
    Mung beans for sprouting
    Other dried beans

    Baked beans
    Tinned tomatoes
    Passata
    Tomato puree
    Tuna, salmon, anchovies
    Corned beef
    Tinned peaches and pineapple

    Spices, salt
    Honey
    Mustard
    Ketchup
    Marmite
    Jams, jellies (hm)
    Chutney, pickles (hm)
    Vinegar
    Olive oil, sunflower oil
    Soy sauce, Worcester sauce
    Sherry, Vermouth

    Freezer
    Peas, sweetcorn
    Berries, stewed fruit
    Stock
    Loaves, rolls (hm)
    pittas
    Chickens
    Cooked ham (from a joint I've cooked myself and sliced)
    Bacon
    Mince
    Sausages
    White fish fillets
    Salmon fillets

    Fridge
    Milk
    Butter
    Cheese
    Parmesan
    Yogurt (hm)
    small carton of cream
    Eggs
    Streaky bacon

    Fresh
    Potatoes
    Onions, Garlic
    Carrots
    Salad stuff
    lemons
    Bananas
    Apples

    From this I can make loads of meals. As I mentioned in my previous post I buy other meat and fish as well for variety.
  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Follow-up thought - I had to teach myself to cook - as I didnt learn a thing (literally!) from my mother - and one of the ways I did this was by buying student cookbooks (look up Amazon and put in "Grub on a Grant" and various student cookbooks will come up). Student cookbooks have a high proportion of recipes for one person by definition - but can easily be multiplied up for more than one person. In fact they usually have recipes for "entertaining" - these are for more than one in the first place. Some of these books are umpteen ways to use baked beans - but there are some really good ones (interesting, cheap etc).

    There may be other ways to learn to cook and get ideas for mealplanning - but its one of the best I found.

    Believe me - I was HOPELESS!! when I had to start cooking - I couldnt even make eggs on toast, thats how ignorant I was. If I can learn to cook and mealplan - believe me, anyone can - in fact I am regarded as a good cook these days.
  • Newgirl_2
    Newgirl_2 Posts: 367 Forumite
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    thriftlady wrote: »
    I think I read that book Newgirl, it wasn't called Confessions of an Organised Housewife was it ?
    .

    Yes, something like that. It had lots of useful info but that was something that stuck in my memory.

    Newgirl
  • thriftmonster
    thriftmonster Posts: 1,729 Forumite
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    This has probably been suggested, but you could record what you eat at each meal for the next fortnight - which would give you a start. Take this as the basis and then add in any other meals you like.

    I generally work on the main carb for each meal, so I start with:

    Mon: rice
    Tues: pasta
    Weds: potatoes
    Thurs: pasta
    Fri: rice
    Sat: pasta
    Sun: potatoes

    Then I add the protein and veg to the main meal, according to what we like, and the season. Lunches follow on - planned leftovers from dinner first, otherwise from scratch. Packed lunches work on a main thing, a side thing, fruit/veg and a drink. Breakfast is fairly standard - cereal or toast or pancakes or potato breads. Often on Sun we have a cooked brunch.

    As you can tell we eat a lot of pasta - but you can fiddle with this as much as you like.
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  • carlih1
    carlih1 Posts: 846 Forumite
    Hi all

    myself and dd have gone through all the cupboard and the fridge this morning i am trying to plan my meals for the week and only want to get what i really have to when i go to tesco's. So i have done my cupboard list, there are a lot of things on there i didn't know i had and i think i should be able to eat relatively cheaply this week.

    Any suggestions please - freezer list to follow

    Cupboard food

    Bottom cupboard

    Enchiladas kit
    Long grain brown rice
    Brown rice
    Baked beans x2
    Minced beef and onion pies x2
    Smash
    Spaghetti x2
    Couscous
    Pasta x3
    Egg noodles
    [STRIKE]Passata sauce[/STRIKE]
    Stock cubes
    Riveta

    Top cupboard

    Herbs – Ground cumin, chilli powder (x2), whole cardamon, ground turmeric, oregano, dried mixed herbs (x2), garam masalla, chargrilled chicken flavouring, ground ginger, paprika, mixed peppercorns, ground coriander, cajan spice, crushed chillis, dried basil, dried thyme, rice vinegar, soy sauce, Worcestershire sauce, red wine vinegar, sherry vinegar, balsamic vinegar, Italian seasoning, bay leaves
    Corned beef
    Mustard powder
    Tin Sweetcorn
    Tin Creamed sweetcorn
    Korma sauce
    Red wine and onion sauce
    Bisto gravy, chicken, beef
    Saxa salt
    Veg Boullion powder
    Chicken stock granules
    Tin Green lentils
    Tin Three bean salad
    Tin Red kidney beans
    Parmesan
    Tomato puree –tube
    Ketchup





    Middle cupboard

    Mixed nuts
    Sunflower oil
    Squash
    Sesame seeds
    Dried figs
    Dried blueberries
    Linseed
    Raisins
    Tin Sliced mango
    Tin pineapple slices
    Sponge syrup pudding
    Tin apricots
    YAWYE seed packets
    Sunflower seeds
    Dried tropical fruit mix
    Dried prunes
    Waffles

    Breakfast cupboard

    Dumpling mix
    Tea, (herbal and normal)
    Hot chocolate
    Cornflour x2
    Food colourings
    Ground nutmeg
    Ground cinnamon
    Ground mixed spice
    Light brown soft sugar
    Granulated sugar
    Marmite x2
    Chocolate ice cream sauce
    Peanut butter
    Marmalade
    Blackcurrant jelly
    Tassimo coffees
    Chocolate milkshake
    Short grain pudding rice
    Sugar
    Coco pops
    Oatibix
    Porridge
    Weetabix

    Fridge

    HP sauce
    Lemon sauce
    Mayonnaise
    Baby leaf salad
    Eggs
    [STRIKE]Courgette[/STRIKE]
    Carrots
    [STRIKE]Broccoli[/STRIKE]
    Butter
    Grapes
    Peppers
    Potato salad
    Coleslaw
    Strawberries
    Soya yoghurts
    [STRIKE]Mushrooms[/STRIKE]
    Cucumber
    Onions
    Garlic
    Balsamic dressing
    Squeezy basil
    Black olives
    Capers
    Mustard
    Grated mozzarella
    Shallots
    Baby potatoes


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