*Change of plan - and maybe some good news!*

(Land_of)_Maz

Snaggles wrote: »

He's started applying for jobs too - as I predicted I have had to update his cv and help him fill in the forms, but strangely I haven't minded at all.

See, it's all about give n take, as opposed to just take take take, that's why you're not minding, cause he's making an effort in other areas.

excellent news hun!

SarahNeedle1872

Hi Snags,

glad things are looking a little better for you.... well done to Stu fdor looking for a new job!

Sarah x

postingalwaysposting

Snaggles wrote: »

Hiya, yes, things have gone well today thanks - we were in the car going shopping and Ryan said 'Daddy, look at this', so Stu actually stopped and parked the car, and turned round to look! Ryan felt sooo important - Stu has never done anything like that before, and when he saw how happy Ryan was to have his attention like that, he had tears in his eyes.

Aww wow snaggs thats the most inspiring post i have read on here in a long time. Stu is starting to make the right steps to put his relationship with ryan right. I dont know what changed in him but i hope he keeps it up. You are a very strong person snags and you seem to put i with a lot but when you start seeing rewards like this i guess it makes you smile too. I hope you carry on reaping the rewards.

hugs to you and your loved ones :kisses3:

slowlyfading

I'm glad things are looking up for you you sound so much more positive, and you deserve to be happy. xx

jacs76

your post made me well up , how many of us would do that usually kids would get the 'hang on a sec' wait til later in a bit answer or is it just me
glad ryan enjoyed the v.i.p treatment

hubby sounds like he is going above and beyond,maybe then the tiny misgiving's won't seem so bad

good luck to hubby with the job hunting :T

beanielou

Glad its all coming together.
So pleased for you all.

daphne_descends

Hi Snaggles, I've just read about a million pages of your diary! It's a busy one this... Just wanted to send a virtual hug, hope your weekend is going well - you are so strong to cope with everything you have on your plate at the moment. But it's good to read your more recent posts sounding so positive. xxx

tigtag02

Snaggles wrote: »

Hiya, yes, things have gone well today thanks - we were in the car going shopping and Ryan said 'Daddy, look at this', so Stu actually stopped and parked the car, and turned round to look! Ryan felt sooo important - Stu has never done anything like that before, and when he saw how happy Ryan was to have his attention like that, he had tears in his eyes.

It felt like a bit of a breakthrough really - I'm being cautiously optimistic, because I know there's a long way to go, but I can see now how much Stu wants to put things right.

He's started applying for jobs too - as I predicted I have had to update his cv and help him fill in the forms, but strangely I haven't minded at all.

Fingers crossed he finds something soon.

Stu needs a thanks button

ZTD

tigtag02 wrote: »

Stu needs a thanks button

He has one...but it's for Snagg's personal use...

Ellidee

Hiya hun I too am sooo pleased that your day went so well yesterday and I hope that today is even better for you all. Take care X