*Change of plan - and maybe some good news!*

jacs76

i'm assuming no news yet. can't imagine what you are going through.

how has your day been?

Sea78

Hey Snaggles - did you ring them in the end?

Sea xxxx

Snaggles

Hiya, still no call.

They absolutely promised they would ring today. :mad: I didn't ring them today, just in case they discussed Ryan's case last and contacted my at the end of the working day.....but no. So I will be ringing them tomorrow to find out what is going on.

jacs76

Do they only work/open office hours?

Snaggles

jacs76 wrote: »

Do they only work/open office hours?

Yes, I think so. I should maybe have tried them, but I suppose I was a bit scared really.

jacs76

don't be scared hun.

6 weeks after my son was born we had to go back to the hospital to get it all confirmed/what type etc by the blood tests that were taken at birth,i had convinced myself they were going to say 'so sorry we have made a mistake '
we are all scared of the unknown but there is relief when the truth and facts are known xx

Snaggles

jacs76 wrote: »

don't be scared hun.

6 weeks after my son was born we had to go back to the hospital to get it all confirmed/what type etc by the blood tests that were taken at birth,i had convinced myself they were going to say 'so sorry we have made a mistake '
we are all scared of the unknown but there is relief when the truth and facts are known xx

Aww jacs, I'm sorry, I wasn't thinking hun - you have been there/done that and coped amazingly, in fact really you have coped with far more than I am doing and still seem perfectly sane (ish ).

How old is your son?

jacs76

NO don't be sorry about anything we are all scared of the unknown. In my carp way with words i suppose i was trying to say its easier when there is a black or white answer a yes or no a 'label'.
He is 15 now :eek: time flys. i was 16 when i had him and a shock wasn't the word.

he hates crowds, going to other peoples house ,likes things a certain way , has to do the same routine everyday and also says things out loud in public that maybe we are thinking but we wouldnt say outloud:o

he is in my avatar doing his favourite thing, watching the waves for hours (speck by the edge) we even had to go and film it and pop it on the computer for him to watch.

skintscotslass

Hi Snaggles, I've not been around for ages. I'm sorry you're having a difficult time at the moment. Big hugs honey xx

Snaggles

jacs76 wrote: »

NO don't be sorry about anything we are all scared of the unknown. In my carp way with words i suppose i was trying to say its easier when there is a black or white answer a yes or no a 'label'.

It wasn't carp, far from it - I was actually quite touched by what you said.

He is 15 now :eek: time flys. i was 16 when i had him and a shock wasn't the word.

Oh my goodness, that's an awful lot to cope with at such a you age. You must have been a lot more together than I was at that age.

he hates crowds, going to other peoples house ,likes things a certain way , has to do the same routine everyday and also says things out loud in public that maybe we are thinking but we wouldnt say outloud:o

he is in my avatar doing his favourite thing, watching the waves for hours (speck by the edge) we even had to go and film it and pop it on the computer for him to watch.

You could have been describing Ryan there, even down to the sea thing. He loves watching the waves too.