*Change of plan - and maybe some good news!*

ZTD

spud30 wrote: »

Aww hun, I'm not sure why :rolleyes:

I cant do the advice stuff like Toto or Zed. I just do flirting :rotfl: :rotfl:

Advice? Moi?

I just do flirting and smut...

Snaggles

spud30 wrote: »

Aww hun, I'm not sure why :rolleyes:

I cant do the advice stuff like Toto or Zed. I just do flirting :rotfl: :rotfl:

You are always there with something warm and funny to say. Don't underestimate how important that is.

spud30

ZTD wrote: »

Advice? Moi?

I just do flirting and smut...

I LOVE flirting and smut :T

Snaggles

I certainly do have amazing friends! :T

And I love you all too, although I have also had a glass (ok, 2) of wine. But I still do.

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

While we are on the subject, according to a silly test thing I did the other day, I am also 'on the spectrum' (not taking it seriously though, but it's probably right!), and I'm pretty convinced that Stu has undiagnosed ADHD or something vaguely ASD-ish (he even walks on his tiptoes when he doesn't have shoes on, which is quite an achievement for a 5ft11, 13 stone bloke). So it's no wonder we all have trouble understanding each other.

I wouldn't worry about it - all part of life's rich tapestry. I'm sure we all do something that's classed as "out-of-the-ordinary".

I'm sure some things I do are classed as "normal"...

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

I certainly do have amazing friends! :T

And I love you all too, although I have also had a glass (ok, 2) of wine. But I still do.

Although a bottle is made out of glass, it's still called a "bottle"... :whistle:

Toto

Snaggles wrote: »

Aww, bless her. I'm sure Ryan would be much happier if he could go to school dressed as a Doctor Who. I might suggest it at the next parent evening!

While we are on the subject, according to a silly test thing I did the other day, I am also 'on the spectrum' (not taking it seriously though, but it's probably right!), and I'm pretty convinced that Stu has undiagnosed ADHD or something vaguely ASD-ish (he even walks on his tiptoes when he doesn't have shoes on, which is quite an achievement for a 5ft11, 13 stone bloke). So it's no wonder we all have trouble understanding each other.

I'm a tiptoe walker too :rotfl: I think there's a little ASD in many of us. I know plenty of musicians who are all on the spectrum, in fact that's what makes us so focused and driven so it can be a good thing.

But you make a good point , my ex certainly has a personality disorder.... ok OK I'll behave Seriously, I'm sure my ex has an ASD-ish type thing too which I think was pretty scary because he was seeing behaviours in Amber that he remembered doing himself, of course that makes it harder to cope with. Then you have the guilt thing, am I responsible for passing this on? Ugh it's a minefield, it's a wonder any of us come out the other side with our marbles.

spud30

I fold my toes under my feet when I'm sat down, even when I've got shoes on - my DH says I've got mutant feet. All you can see is my big toe sticking out, I look like I have just one toe. My DD does it too, but hubby cant and DS cant.

We all pass things on to our children, both good things and bad.

Oh, and I walk on my tip toes too

ZTD

Toto wrote: »

I'm a tiptoe walker too :rotfl:

It makes sense to do that when barefoot, because you can feel if there is anything sharp underfoot before putting your full weight down. If you walk like when you are shod, anything sharp will be driven into your heel by your full weight.

Incidently it's called "fox walking".

Snaggles

Toto wrote: »

I'm a tiptoe walker too :rotfl:

No hun, they're called 'stilletos'... (sorry )

it's a wonder any of us come out the other side with our marbles.

Well, marbles are quite over-rated, I feel.

I know I'm a screw-up, and I like to think that knowledge gives me a slight edge over people who are messed up but don't realise it! :rotfl: