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I don't know if what I'm going to try to say will come out right ,but here goes. Whatever Ryan's diagnosis is it won't change HIM but hopefully it can only lead to you and Ryan getting the understanding and help that you need. So, although it's not nice to stick a label on someone, I feel that for you it might be the only way forward. I assume that once a diagnosis is made, if it is made, it is not 'set in stone' so to speak and is reviewed regularly ? Anyway hope this doesn't come across as patronising or 'wrong' because I wouldn't ever mean to upset you. XX
And yes, you are absolutely right that Ryan already is what he is, and words on a piece of paper wont change him. The diagnosis ONLY really matters from a point of view of the help he will get at school etc, and that's the only reason I want to have something formal.
I'm not sure if his diagnosis will be reviewed - I suppose it would if his behaviour changed significantly, but generally the diagnosis would stay in place pretty much forever I think. I haven't really looked that far ahead yet, it's all a bit daunting!
BTW, even if I hadn't agreed with your opinion (which I do), I wouldn't be upset by you posting it. Differing viewpoints are more than welcome as you might point out something I hadn't thought of.
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ginormousflares wrote: »Spotty Belly had me flumoxed!
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I think I have just defended your honour on another thread:heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpulsTEAM YELLOWDFD 16/6/10"Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:0 -
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ginormousflares wrote: »Yayyyy, I did a reply ZTD style. WOo ooo
And what exactly is ZTD style..? Off topic? Throbbing with innuendo? The world awaits your answer..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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:heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpulsTEAM YELLOWDFD 16/6/10"Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:0
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