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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Ellidee wrote: »
    I don't know if what I'm going to try to say will come out right ,but here goes. Whatever Ryan's diagnosis is it won't change HIM but hopefully it can only lead to you and Ryan getting the understanding and help that you need. So, although it's not nice to stick a label on someone, I feel that for you it might be the only way forward. I assume that once a diagnosis is made, if it is made, it is not 'set in stone' so to speak and is reviewed regularly ? Anyway hope this doesn't come across as patronising or 'wrong' because I wouldn't ever mean to upset you. XX
    It doesn't come across as patronising or wrong. :)

    And yes, you are absolutely right that Ryan already is what he is, and words on a piece of paper wont change him. The diagnosis ONLY really matters from a point of view of the help he will get at school etc, and that's the only reason I want to have something formal.

    I'm not sure if his diagnosis will be reviewed - I suppose it would if his behaviour changed significantly, but generally the diagnosis would stay in place pretty much forever I think. I haven't really looked that far ahead yet, it's all a bit daunting! :o

    BTW, even if I hadn't agreed with your opinion (which I do :)), I wouldn't be upset by you posting it. Differing viewpoints are more than welcome as you might point out something I hadn't thought of.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    :confused: was this a drunken post??

    No :o:o:o:o
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
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  • tigtag02 wrote: »
    No :o:o:o:o
    Spotty Belly had me flumoxed!
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Spotty Belly had me flumoxed!

    It must be Yorkshire the for *How are you* :p

    I think I have just defended your honour on another thread ;)
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Which one?
    Debt Apr 06 Huge Debt Now Small in Comparison :D:eek:Debt Free Date March 2011
    Proud to be dealing with my debts DFW Nerd 793:D
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    :lovethoug :blushing: You know what this is for Snaggs XX
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Ellidee wrote: »
    :lovethoug :blushing: You know what this is for Snaggs XX

    I do hun, and here is one for you: :kisses3:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    ohh i can feel the love in here today how are we all ?
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Yayyyy, I did a reply ZTD style. WOo ooo

    And what exactly is ZTD style..? Off topic? Throbbing with innuendo? The world awaits your answer... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Which one?

    The Mothercare one.
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
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