Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

calleyw

Pyxis wrote: »

Flybaby, look what I found!

I want, I want , I want :j

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

Wellyboots6 wrote: »

Thanks Pyxis!!

Eeeeeeeeeeeee!

(I sound like a piglet now!)


That works really well as an avatar! :T

rjhammond91

calleyw wrote: »

Been there, done that and got the T-shirt. I have had to block so many of them. I am no raving beauty. But it does seem that some men seem to think that because you are single you are gagging for it :rotfl:



Don't be sorry for being moany.

I would write a letter telling your ex that he has X amount of days to collect of his stuff other wise you will dispose of it. Send it to be signed for.

head over to the housing board there are loads of people who will be able to help you with what to do.

Yours

Calley

Well I wouldn't exactly say I'm not gagging for it haha!

I think that's what I'm going to have to do! Can't be dealing with his rubbish!

Thank you guys! You're all so lovely! And you all give such great advice! Just what I needed this morning!

calleyw

rjhammond91 wrote: »

Well I wouldn't exactly say I'm not gagging for it haha!

LOL!!! Everyone likes attention.

With my ex it was nearly 3 month before we did it. Not saying we were not doing other things. He then text me the next day saying he was sorry and it should not have happened. when I tried to make sense of it all I got was because it should not have happened. well that made me feel like a bag of spanners :rotfl::rotfl:

But sex is one part of a relationship. And to me if all a mans want to do is have sex with me then he does not see me as girlfriend material.

And I know am. Not trying to be a big head but I do know my worth. And value myself more than that.

Yours

Calley

rjhammond91

Calley, you're completely right! You deserve the best!

xx

calleyw

Oh Guys have two confessions to make.

1) Done more gloss work today - I know stand back in amazement.:eek: Its a not a good job but its getting done and that all I care about.
2) bottled the speaking group but got a lovely e-mail to say they were sorry to see I did not come and encouraged me to the next one.

Oh and my good deed for the day (yesterday) brought my husbands bed linen fresh from the washing machine home and put on my line. As hanging out washing is difficult for him. And he will drag it over the floor :rotfl: or leave it in the bathroom for days to dry.

So will take it back tomorrow me thinks.

Yours

Calley

Wellyboots6

I found on pof the best way to sort through the 'players' was to go for peoples whose pictures weren't great I.e. they obviously hadnt spent ages posing for them or had loads of practice doing pictures for dating sites! Also people who had just 'selfies' seemed to be ones to cross off the list, whereas those with pictures of them doing hobbies etc (not just in the pub) seemed more genuine.
Also, a more detailed profile describing hobbies, work, interests etc rather than just what they were looking for were a pretty good bet.
Oh and with hubby I was a bit naughty. There is an option on there of putting you are just looking for friends. I did that, and put that I was in a relationship (I wasn't). He was happy to chat to me as friends but when I suggested meeting up he was horrified that I would want to meet when I had a boyfriend. I knew then he was a decent bloke! It took some explaining as to why I had done that, and we didn't get on well to begin with, but it worked out in the end. I don't recommend not being honest, but after kissing a fair few frogs I felt I needed to try a new approach!

There are decent people on there, they just hide well at times!

Pyxis

Calley, that speaking group sounds lovely! How kind of them to contact you! They obviously care about you being 'shy'!

Sounds like just the place!

jobbingmusician

Gosh, I turn my back for a few mins (OK, about a day) and what happens!

1. New thread
2. New name for wellyboots
3. New avatar for WB (I was really confused at first, couldn't think why no-one was saying welcome, as it changes all the back posts as well!)
4. Welcome to Pippin!

Off to subscribe.......

Hugs and squishes to anyone who needs them, and extra fairylights for the fort!

Pyxis

Hiya, JM! Are all your concerts finished for now?
At least until the big Christmas push?