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DMP & Mutual Support Thread - Part 11

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  • motivated wrote: »
    Well done for getting your DMP all sorted you must be so relieved.

    We are doing ok. Still waiting for confirmation from SC. Had a call the other day just to check a couple of things on the budget so hopefully we will hear this week. We are both so much more relaxed now I can't tell you. We haven't been like this for a loooong time

    My new file is going to be for any SC paperwork and any important documents. I feel like even having that is a new start for us. The other non important stuff is sitting in the incinerator waiting to be burned :D

    M

    To be honest, I feel like a bit of a cheat! It's been so easy! I completed the online remedy tool, got the advice to do a DMP, signed paperwork and provided account details for those in the plan.
    I've had just 2 short phone calls with SC but I'm all set to go 1st May, so a couple of months to get used to it all and I'm on my way.
    I know it's not going to be easier, but the thought of just one payment each month, and some backup if things get tough, I can't wait!!
    Good luck with finalising your plan and getting going xx
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,489 Ambassador
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    2017spark wrote: »
    To be honest, I feel like a bit of a cheat! It's been so easy! I completed the online remedy tool, got the advice to do a DMP, signed paperwork and provided account details for those in the plan.

    It is easy, people expect to be made to jump through hoops, but it just does not happen like that at all.

    But you should not feel like a cheat, these solutions exist for a very good reason, things happen in life that we have no control over, and everyone deserves a safety net.

    Do not feel sorry for your creditors either, they plan these things into their business models, so they rarely lose out when people default.

    You have made the right choice for your situation, i cant tell you how difficult it can be reading peoples posts before they have there LB moment, they go on about "0%" deals, then when they run out its consolidation, when that goes wrong, they finally realize they should of gone to debt management previously.

    You are doing the right thing believe me.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • January2015
    January2015 Posts: 2,369 Forumite
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    2017spark wrote: »
    To be honest, I feel like a bit of a cheat! It's been so easy! I completed the online remedy tool, got the advice to do a DMP, signed paperwork and provided account details for those in the plan.
    I've had just 2 short phone calls with SC but I'm all set to go 1st May, so a couple of months to get used to it all and I'm on my way.
    I know it's not going to be easier, but the thought of just one payment each month, and some backup if things get tough, I can't wait!!
    Good luck with finalising your plan and getting going xx

    It is going to easier. Life will be better and worry will lift from your shoulders. I've been there :D

    One piece of advice - make sure you do save the amounts in categories for hairdressing, repairs, maintenance, clothing etc. etc. Don't make the mistake of using those amounts to live on day to day. They really are there for saving until they are needed for those bits and pieces.

    Enjoy your DMP. :beer:
    DFW Nerd No. 1484 LBM 07/01/15 Debt was £95k :eek: Now debt free and happy :j
  • motivated
    motivated Posts: 3,044 Forumite
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    It is going to easier. Life will be better and worry will lift from your shoulders. I've been there :D

    One piece of advice - make sure you do save the amounts in categories for hairdressing, repairs, maintenance, clothing etc. etc. Don't make the mistake of using those amounts to live on day to day. They really are there for saving until they are needed for those bits and pieces.

    Enjoy your DMP. :beer:

    Following your advice and already I am putting money into my second savings account ready for car tax insurance and things like that. I have put our emergency fund in a separate savings account. As Sourcrates said I already wish I had done this sooner.
    M
    Emptying my lake with a teaspoon
  • Sazzie23
    Sazzie23 Posts: 2,634 Forumite
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    Hey we went a whole day without a post, things must be settling down again.

    Saz
    Debt -it's a fight that I'm winning, dealing with debt one day at a time.
    Estimated DFD August 2018 - 2031 - now 2027 :T

    Guide dog Tess, missing Scotland 2 years

    DMP support no438.
  • I am so worried! My wages have been paid into my Santander account who I owe money to and are included in my DMP! I gave my employer my new bank details too. I don't know what to do as I have no money. Please can someone advise. Thanks.
  • Keezing
    Keezing Posts: 322 Forumite
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    I am so worried! My wages have been paid into my Santander account who I owe money to and are included in my DMP! I gave my employer my new bank details too. I don't know what to do as I have no money. Please can someone advise. Thanks.

    Just transfer the money over to your correct account.

    Nothing bad will happen :-)
  • Thanks Keezing- I tried transferring it online but it wouldn't go through because I'm in the red- my wages have reduced my overdraft :(
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,489 Ambassador
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    Thanks Keezing- I tried transferring it online but it wouldn't go through because I'm in the red- my wages have reduced my overdraft :(

    Ring the bank, explain your problem.

    They have to leave you money to live on, insist the funds get transferred.

    Be persistent !!!
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • Thanks Sourcrates. I phoned SC who said to call inbranch- I'm going to phone them now and be firm- wish me luck :s
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