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Unhappy with her.

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  • geerex
    geerex Posts: 785 Forumite
    Don't be ridiculous, everyone on this forum knows that all women are perfect and all men are scum.
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    Jagraf wrote: »
    I'm attracted to emotionally intelligent men, who look like apes.

    Short legs and long arms. :huh:
  • itsanne
    itsanne Posts: 5,001 Forumite
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    edited 30 June 2015 at 8:20PM
    amistupid wrote: »
    At the top of my list is a physical attraction.

    I wonder if that one is different for men and women. It's not what you generally hear a woman say.

    I think physical attraction matters, but it's not as straightforward as it sounds and it's not just to do with looks. For example, I couldn't have been attracted to someone stupid or untrustworthy or simply unpleasant or .......... no matter how good looking they might be. Equally, someone intelligent and witty may appear more attractive than his looks alone would warrant.
    . . .I did not speak out

    Then they came for me
    And there was no one left
    To speak out for me..

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  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    Physical attraction is a the top of the OP's list. I doubt it's the only thing.
  • sidefx
    sidefx Posts: 1,235 Forumite
    amistupid wrote: »
    At the top of my list is a physical attraction.

    What you find physically attractive might lure you towards that person, but if their nature and personality doesn't, then a deep, sincere and long lasting attraction won't happen.

    Most people need that physical attraction at first, but it is the whole package that makes them really desirable.

    Luckily what is deemed attractive by someone may not be desirable to another.

    Barring the odd few, we'd probably all be single if that wasn't the case!
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    amistupid wrote: »
    At the top of my list is a physical attraction.
    Why? We all get old an ugly eventually, does that mean it's time for a trade-in? Fair enough if you have drunk from the pool of eternal youth but am guessing you might lose your currency over time in that department, just like the rest of us :p
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

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  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
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    amistupid wrote: »
    At the top of my list is a physical attraction.

    Rather unfortunate when you get to our age.;):(
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    Rather unfortunate when you get to our age.;):(

    Physical attraction is subjective though.
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    VfM4meplse wrote: »
    Why? We all get old an ugly eventually, does that mean it's time for a trade-in? Fair enough if you have drunk from the pool of eternal youth but am guessing you might lose your currency over time in that department, just like the rest of us :p

    But why would that affect what is at the top of the OP's list?
  • stormbreaker
    stormbreaker Posts: 2,289 Forumite
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    What a disappointment, I truly thought you were going to finished with........but she's mine and I dont care:D

    Just a romantic females point of view!
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