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  • reason2
    reason2 Posts: 362 Forumite
    my least favourite type of person is someone who chooses to be offended on behalf of someone else, about something that has nothing to do with them, that no one else cares about.
  • JReacher1
    JReacher1 Posts: 4,663 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Email addresses are classed as personal data. If you now have lots of random peoples email addresses I would complain about that as they now also have your email address.

    You could theoretically be spammed now by any random.
  • patman99
    patman99 Posts: 8,532 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Photogenic
    At the least, I would expect 1 month's free membership for their blatant breach of the DPA.
    Never Knowingly Understood.

    Member #1 of £1,000 challenge - £13.74/ £1000 (that's 1.374%)

    3-6 month EF £0/£3600 (that's 0 days worth)

  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    I had no idea 'Cretin' was an offensive term, I doubt many people of my generation do. Whatever it once meant it has now passed in to common use as another word for 'moron' or 'imbecile', which thinking about it were also offensive words at one point. But none of them are any more, I don't know why anyone would find Cretin offensive as no one uses it in a derogatory way any more, those meanings have been lost.
  • mambo69
    mambo69 Posts: 451 Forumite
    Why not reply to all


    "Dear Mrs xx

    As you are fully aware the reason my payment failed is because you have not taken the new details, and you seem to have no cover when you are not in the office

    Please let me know when you are about so I can update the details, and also is everone else aware of this problem from your side?
  • timbstoke
    timbstoke Posts: 987 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    Even if they do find it offensive...what's wrong with being offended? It's infinitely preferable to living in a society where nobody is allowed to say anything which might accidentally a little bit perhaps offend somebody somewhere if they take it the wrong way.
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,882 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I had no idea 'Cretin' was an offensive term, I doubt many people of my generation do. Whatever it once meant it has now passed in to common use as another word for 'moron' or 'imbecile', which thinking about it were also offensive words at one point. But none of them are any more, I don't know why anyone would find Cretin offensive as no one uses it in a derogatory way any more, those meanings have been lost.

    All three of those words are offensive and of course they are used in a derogatory way. What else could they be but an insult! 😕
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

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  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I had no idea 'Cretin' was an offensive term, I doubt many people of my generation do. Whatever it once meant it has now passed in to common use as another word for 'moron' or 'imbecile', which thinking about it were also offensive words at one point. But none of them are any more, I don't know why anyone would find Cretin offensive as no one uses it in a derogatory way any more, those meanings have been lost.

    Seriously? You don't think cretin, imbecile or moron are derogatory? I can't think of any circumstance where they would be used in a non-derogatory way.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • JReacher1
    JReacher1 Posts: 4,663 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Seriously? You don't think cretin, imbecile or moron are derogatory? I can't think of any circumstance where they would be used in a non-derogatory way.

    What if you were friends with Joseph cretin?

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Cr!tin
  • timbstoke
    timbstoke Posts: 987 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    Seriously? You don't think cretin, imbecile or moron are derogatory? I can't think of any circumstance where they would be used in a non-derogatory way.

    Oh do grow up.
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