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Feeling uneasy

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  • j.e.j.
    j.e.j. Posts: 9,672 Forumite
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    [simon] wrote: »
    I have since made an account of my own on the dating site to check the sattus of my ex, shes still using the web site, as it says shes been on line in last few hours, so she obviously is not using the time to be on a break and think.

    This is VERY odd. You seem to be in loco parentis, almost?
  • j.e.j.
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    suki1964 wrote: »
    I think he's uneasy because he had found his perfect woman ( read his previous posts ) and she too isn't interested in him

    If you scroll down, you can read his views on women here

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=66639888&postcount=42

    ... :eek:
    My social circle is make up of quiet, low self esteem people, i stand out with them, hence i attract girls that are also like that.


    That was 6 months ago.
  • BrassicWoman
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    *splutters*

    *adds to ignore list*
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  • j.e.j.
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    *splutters*

    *adds to ignore list*

    But if you do that you won't be able to read his other words of wisdom..
    Another thing is, and its right to bring this up here, usually break down of marriage is caused by lack of love making, caused by the women, fact. Lots of older men complain about this. Women also put on timber when they are comfortable which can alter a mans emotions , feelings towards her, even though she might have a great personality. However thanks to the run for life events, which women take very seriously, as well as been a great charity it also keeps a lot of women in shape which is great.

    :rotfl::rotfl:

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=67381549&postcount=28


    He's probably going to report me for quoting him, like he did pollycat, but I think what he's saying in those posts is relevant to this thread.
  • *max*
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    I am just...:eek: at the quotes!

    I'm glad the poor woman managed to escape his clutches now! Unbelievable.
  • geerex
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    Every time the OP posts, a dictionary sets itself on fire.
  • lemonpopcorn
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    omg, at first I had a little sympathy and felt he may be genuinely concerned for his ex, however after reading that post he put up, she's done the right thing by dumping him, thank god I'm not the type he goes for.
    OP move on and maybe have a think about how your views may hinder you actually having a meaningful relationship.
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  • ecgirl07
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    j.e.j. wrote: »
    If you scroll down, you can read his views on women here

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=66639888&postcount=42

    ... :eek:




    That was 6 months ago.

    The worst of that post is
    [simon] wrote: »
    .

    Women:

    As for women. In my opinion, Women are here to reproduce, not to work, not be more successful than a male, but to look after kids. The male does the work. The troubble is women are been given too much power, they now choose the male, they now have the money and work to be independent and leave the male. They also use sex as a weapon. This in all slows down reproduction. The women should stay at home.

    I dont agree that women choose a male, the male should choose the women. And thats exactly what i do. A successful business women may not choose me, but i would not choose her for reasons i have mentioned above. The kind of women i choose are low on self confidence, don't have much a d wont have much, the kind of women who agrees the man takes control. They are less likley to leave also. I am happy to settle down with this type of women.

    The buesiness women look nice yes, with there boots and skits ect, but i don't choose them for a relationship. At the end of the day they have to let their hair down, weekends in the clubs, when they have one too many and thats when you take advantage of the sort. And thats all thats needed to be fair. The ones that i settle with are ones who don't have an answer back. Its common phycology to be honest. So saying that a women wont look at me in my 30 / 40 years is a joke. I don't relay on them looking at me or wanting me, i take the ones who need me because they have nothing else. Win win.

    The kind of friends i have and my social circle was mentioned. My social circle is make up of quiet, low self esteem people, i stand out with them, hence i attract girls that are also like that.
    .

    Hope the fact he takes women is one of his linguistic errors and not an indication of mindset.
  • j.e.j.
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    I just hope he's an internet troll and not for real :eek:

    You do get groups of people trolling internet chatrooms and forums to see if they can stir up a bit of mischief.
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