Feeling uneasy

Nodding_Donkey

Stalking her is only going to cause problems.

And discussing her sex life with her parents :eek:

RallY?

BrassicWoman

So your view of how to live is "right" and hers is "wrong".

Seems to me her parents have the right approach, and you are way too judgemental and controlling.

Move on and cut ties. This is an EX. Work on the ex bit and stop the creepy cyber stalking.

C_Mababejive

Its not your problem. You are lucky to be out of it and let it stay that way. Move on,dont contact her any more.

fairy_lights

[simon] wrote: »

Her parents live close by, ive asked them to take their daughter back home, now ! So she can be safe, and they refused, saying they have used her bedroom for storage now !!
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I have since made an account of my own on the dating site to check the sattus of my ex, shes still using the web site, as it says shes been on line in last few hours, so she obviously is not using the time to be on a break and think.

You're seriously overstepping boundaries by acting like this. Why do you think you have the right to dictate where she lives? Can't you see that keeping tabs on what she does online is a bit creepy?
If you truly care about her then back off, be there for her if she wants your help but otherwise leave her alone.

suki1964

I think he's uneasy because he had found his perfect woman ( read his previous posts ) and she too isn't interested in him

Errata

I think he's clueless and with a bit of luck will get nicked for stalking.

meg72

Learning difficulties or not she obviously knows what she wants and its not you. I think the telling fact here is she hasn't had this kind of attention before, perhaps you could have tried harder to meet her needs instead of controlling and trying to make her into what you wanted. As for discussing this with her parents what made you think you had the right, you`re an EX. move on.

Violetta_2

If you think the learning difficulties are severe enough that she is unable to make her own decisions,and protect herself from people "taking advantage" of her, it really doesn't paint you in a very good light considering what happened between the 2 of you.

scooby088

I think the OP has learning problems too by the wat he writes, all i can say is ewhat she does now is none of your business.

meritaten

Its nice that you are concerned about this girl - BUT, she IS an adult and unless her family or Social Services are concerned, there is NOTHING you can do about the way she lives her life.
you did your best - but, its HER life and up to her how she lives it. Sorry, but that is the way it is.