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  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I got married 2 months ago but haven't consummated my marriage as I am scared as hell.

    I am seeing a physcosexual therapist but no matter how much she assures me I just freeze when it's about to happen.

    .
    The NHS is a wonderful institution, and so quick off the mark too.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • not being funny..... is this for real????

    I have my doubts....

    if it is real, I feel your pain....
  • j.e.j.
    j.e.j. Posts: 9,672 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    BarryBlue wrote: »
    Such an obvious troll, surely people can spot these a mile off! Look at the time it was posted, probably a couple of kids having a laugh after school. MSE is getting more and more of these, there was a thread about it the other day.

    It could well be a schoolkid, maybe not so much having a laugh, but having the problems they are posting about, with their first boyfriend ;) After all, I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but how many people are virgins when they get married these days? Not many, I imagine.


    Maybe the board guides should pull the thread. I am sure there are other more suitable websites where people can discuss this kind of stuff in more detail.
  • lulalola
    lulalola Posts: 92 Forumite
    edited 10 March 2015 at 7:53PM
    I don't think it's a troll. There are very real psychosomatic conditions for women around sex and if you have one of them it can be very distressing. Accusations of trolling won't be helping her right now.

    OP, keep seeing your counsellor and I really hope things get better for you.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    The OP posted at 4.46 yesterday afternoon - logged out 30 minutes later. Has not been back since. Does that sound like someone requiring urgent help?
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