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Where do we stand with landlord?

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  • kimmy393 wrote: »
    Yes I guess I do. I was their and i would never burst in on someone I would always knock and ask if everything was ok..
    Well if he had been beating you up you would probably have been glad they just burst in. You might not think you made too much noise but it obviously sounded pretty bad to the landlord and his daughter. I'm sure in normal circumstances they wouldn't just burst in, and as you don't often fight like that then it's not something you need to worry about happening again, is it?
  • kimmy393
    kimmy393 Posts: 5,472 Forumite
    silvercar wrote: »
    All couples may disagree, even argue; I'm sure all couples don't have one partner yelling loudly.

    I would be grateful that the landlord was in earshot. There is only one person to blame for this and it isn't the landlord.

    Tbh it only went on for a couple minutes . I think they where walking past as it happened, it was wrong for us to have a loudish disagreement but bit surprised they'd just burst in. And I sure my bf will apologise today to them. And no I wasn't grateful as I found it very embarrassing . And was sure to let my bf know this too.
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  • ruggedtoast
    ruggedtoast Posts: 9,819 Forumite
    Doesnt sound like they will want him around for much longer anyway if they think hes a wife beater.
  • tain
    tain Posts: 716 Forumite
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    Well if everybody said "there, there, what a bad ll, you poor dear" then they'd not think their behaviour to be different to others and unacceptable to some. Agreeing with an OP doesn't really help them does it.

    This doesn't even make sense.
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