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I give up

Toomuchdebt
Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,134 Forumite
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edited 12 January 2015 at 12:10AM in Marriage, relationships & families
deleted -was a totally crap post anyway sorry
Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

EF #70 £0/£1000

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  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,134 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    edited 12 January 2015 at 12:10AM
    deleted.(message too short)
    Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

    EF #70 £0/£1000

    SW 1st 4lbs
  • What exactly are you giving up?
  • ineed
    ineed Posts: 4,432 Forumite
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    Sorry you're feeling so down, can you tell us what's happened exactly?
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    One can pay back the loan of gold, but one dies forever in debt to those who are kind. ~Malayan Proverb
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  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,134 Forumite
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    I don't even know. Everything. I'm trying so hard to pay debts off and move to a better area and was so happy to have found my job and all it took was a few posts to make me feel like crap and a worthless loser :(
    Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

    EF #70 £0/£1000

    SW 1st 4lbs
  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,134 Forumite
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    ineed wrote: »
    Sorry you're feeling so down, can you tell us what's happened exactly?
    It was a post on MSE-which sounds utterly stupid written down because after all it's only someone's opinion of me but it's just made me feel like there's no point even trying
    Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

    EF #70 £0/£1000

    SW 1st 4lbs
  • ineed
    ineed Posts: 4,432 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    I don't even know. Everything. I'm trying so hard to pay debts off and move to a better area and was so happy to have found my job and all it took was a few posts to make me feel like crap and a worthless loser :(

    You are not a worthless loser, look at all you have achieved :). You're trying to do better for yourself, paying your debts, finding a job etc. Don't let random anonymous idiots bring you down :).
    I SUPPORT CAT RESCUE! Visit Cat Chat to support cat rescue too.

    One can pay back the loan of gold, but one dies forever in debt to those who are kind. ~Malayan Proverb
    Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much ~ Oscar Wilde
    No excellent soul is exempt from a mixture of madness ~ Aristotle
  • ineed
    ineed Posts: 4,432 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    It was a post on MSE-which sounds utterly stupid written down because after all it's only someone's opinion of me but it's just made me feel like there's no point even trying

    It's ok, I understand :). Really though as I said above you're not a loser, far from it :).
    I SUPPORT CAT RESCUE! Visit Cat Chat to support cat rescue too.

    One can pay back the loan of gold, but one dies forever in debt to those who are kind. ~Malayan Proverb
    Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much ~ Oscar Wilde
    No excellent soul is exempt from a mixture of madness ~ Aristotle
  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,134 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    ineed-thank you.
    Debts Jan 2014 £20,108.34 :eek:

    EF #70 £0/£1000

    SW 1st 4lbs
  • Corelli
    Corelli Posts: 664 Forumite
    Posts here, facebook, where? I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds like you've been doing really well on so many fronts. Perhaps you are feeling exhausted with all the effort you have been making and that's made you vulnerable to other people's ideas?

    Hold your head up, and be proud of your achievements. Other people's notions are theirs. Stop and evaluate how relevant they really are to you.


    VEGAN for the environment, for the animals, for health and for people


    "Think occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight." ~Albert Schweitzer
  • If you're happy with what you've achieved then why let other people bring you down? I think it's brilliant that you're a single mum with 6 kids, have a job and still managing to pay off your debts.

    Some people just enjoy making snide digs at others for kicks.
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