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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

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  • chickp
    chickp Posts: 79 Forumite
    Still no sign of AF. Did I count wrong? Is it stress? Still too scared to POAS though. I am going to aim for Friday as I think a BFN might finish me off this week! AF arriving would be a more gentle negative, or so I'm hoping.

    OH does not understand!
  • Congratulations Bluegreen! :T Wishing you health and happiness over the next eight months or so :) xx

    Chickp, my advice would actually be to test - these things nag and nag at you and if it's the week from hell you don't need any more stress on your plate. If you test, at least you'll know and can put it out of your mind - or at least that's how I'd look at it :o Everything crossed for you!
  • devildolly5
    devildolly5 Posts: 287 Forumite
    :j:jCongrats bluegreen, so happy for you:j:j:j:j Love the idea of the whiskey.

    Chickp, I echo black ribboner, for me not testing is just more stressful as you cant get it out of your mind. If its a BFN, you know where you are......but if its a BFP.....might make the week from hell a tiny bit better ;)
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Chickp, as others have said above, it'll be worse for you not knowing than knowing, even though a BFN is horrible.
  • flutterbyuk25
    flutterbyuk25 Posts: 7,009 Forumite
    Thanks for all the replies.

    Lulu92 - it's my third post pill period.

    I knew it would take awhile to get a routine for them after taking the pill for so long I was just freaked out by them appearing with no warning whatsoever, made trickier by working with all male colleagues, in a male prison, so little access to tampons lol!!
    * Rainbow baby boy born 9th August 2016 *

    * Slimming World follower (I breastfeed so get 6 hex's!) *
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Thanks for all the replies.

    Lulu92 - it's my third post pill period.

    I knew it would take awhile to get a routine for them after taking the pill for so long I was just freaked out by them appearing with no warning whatsoever, made trickier by working with all male colleagues, in a male prison, so little access to tampons lol!!

    Nightmare! My first post-depo period had no warning. I had been waiting almost a year for it by that stage. Just went to the loo before bed and there it was, no cramps, nothing. My second one was horrific and I was so close to chopping my boobs off they were so painful :rotfl:
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,532 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I am back again.

    Sadly my little sticky bean's heart stopped beating at 9 weeks. This is my second MMC . Have opted for D&C to remove sac again. Gutted :(
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    I'm so, so sorry, Pinkshoes.
  • lulu_92
    lulu_92 Posts: 2,758 Forumite
    Rampant Recycler I've been Money Tipped!
    oh Pink I'm so sorry to hear that :( Please look after yourself x x x
    Our Rainbow Twins born 17th April 2016
    :A 02.06.2015 :A
    :A 29.12.2018 :A



  • devildolly5
    devildolly5 Posts: 287 Forumite
    I am so sorry your going through this again pinkshoes. Nothing prepares you for the news. Hope the ERPC goes smoothly and you recover fast from the physical side of things. Always here to chat if you need it.
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