Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

MancMama4

Gosh I still haven't got to grips with the cervix stuff haha (so to speak), it seems to change all day every day for me, was medium and soft this morning, now low and hard... no idea!!

chocolatelover93 wrote: »

MacMama I seem to notice EVERYTHING haha I think the worst bit is AF symptoms and pregnancy symptoms seem to be the same!!

I suppose it is good though as I'm getting to know my body more like for example I never knew how much your cervix changes though your cycle!!

MancMama4

Oh Milliebob... I am just as weak and tested as well just now... BFN.....

No spots or cramps etc yet for me but not looking great. Clinging on to a half degree temp shift up this morning...

No hugs then or I'll cry too... we're still not out yet though! xx

Milliebob wrote: »

Ugh I'm having such a rubbish day.

Sorry MancMama but I caved and tested this morning and got a BFN. Got the usual pre AF spots and feeling very moody today so I'm certain she's on her way.

Don't hug me or I'll cry.

Disorganised_Me

Aw boo to the BFN's Milliebob and MancMama!!! But as you said, MancMama, you're not out till AF makes an appearance.

I still haven't tested yet. I think I'm almost afraid too! I just don't want to see another BFN. I've obsessively tested in previous cycles so just want to be absolutely sure I'm late on this one!

My cycle lengths have been 30, 28, 31 and 32 days and today I'm on CD33 with no sign as yet! The OH wants to wait a full week before testing but I'm thinking Sunday should be fine - would you agree?

Hugs to all that need them xxx

MancMama4

I reckon CD35 will be fine Disorganised, will keep my fingers crossed for you - how exciting! Best of luck x

chocolatelover93

MancMama4 wrote: »

Gosh I still haven't got to grips with the cervix stuff haha (so to speak), it seems to change all day every day for me, was medium and soft this morning, now low and hard... no idea!!

I'm struggling a bit too tbh, trying to do it the same time of day and same position (lying in bed before bed) think that makes a difference but not sure when best time is haha

angel11

Hugs Izadora hope AF's not being too much of a witch.

Sorry about bfns Mille & Manc, although there's still hope until AF puts in an appearance.

CD23 still have ewcm, but cervix is much lower would be normal for ov, but still quite soft. No idea where I'm at in cycle, if ov has already happened, or when AF will be due

angel11

Oh, some very little spotting now, no idea what's going on!!!

Disorganised_Me

It's all very confusing, isn't it.... I wish I could offer some advice angel11 but I'm still pretty new to this myself! Could it possibly be an implantation bleed?

I caved and tested - BFN. Boo! If AF doesn't show I'll test again in a few days.

I don't know how confident I am of a BFP now though seeing as I'd class myself as late already although I am only 1 day over my longest cycle....

Hugs to all x

FreddieFrugal

Good morning all, best wishes to you all.

Over the disappointment of last cycle and ready to try again.

We contemplated taking a break from it but want it too badly to just stop!

CD9

Hoping this cycle will be a bit less all over the place, preferably not as long! But just in case we'll have to just keep BDing all the way through from now on, as OV could be anytime.

Luckily we've both got a week off work, so that should make trying a bit easier. Takes us up to CD17 which is great timing. It's fallen just right this month.

Good luck to everyone.

MancMama4

Morning all...

Well I don't know what to say really... yesterday's BFN was then a TLP last night when I tested again... took a digi on the CBFM this morning with FMU and...

BFP!!!

I'm a little bit in shock here as never seen as much as a faint line in 7 months. Just been lying in bed with OH for the past 2 hours trying to get our heads round it.

Wow... no idea what to do next! Better check out the other thread. Thank you so much for all the support and I will certainly be lurking a while longer to see how you all get on. Love to all Xxx