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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

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  • euronorris
    euronorris Posts: 12,247 Forumite
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    Oh Freddie, I'm so sorry. Hugs for you both ((HUGS))
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  • Keekee
    Keekee Posts: 94 Forumite
    Freddie, I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs to you both.
  • MovingUp
    MovingUp Posts: 123 Forumite
    Sorry Freddie, look after each other. And hugs to everyone else with AF.


    CD33. Normally 28 day cycle. Another negative test. Wish AF would appear as I'm really quite stressed about it.
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    Oh Freddie I'm so sorry :( I really can relate to that this month. I was so gutted when I got to CD42 and AF came. So MovingUp I can relate to you too!!

    I actually had a bit of a breakdown last night, something just snapped and I cried my eyes out about work, money, TTC, cleaning, planning etc etc. Think I hadn't realised how stressed I was!

    Of course stress doesn't help TTC, so OH & I have decided to really try and focus on US and baby will come along when it's ready. So time for lots of date nights, quality time and just general de-stressing. CD4 at the moment and am still going to have my docs appointment at mum, a girlie chat with Mum tomorrow and am also trying Agnus Castus to try and regulate a bit.

    Love to everyone x
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • Izadora
    Izadora Posts: 2,047 Forumite
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    So sorry Freddie. I'd say enjoy the wine and chocolate but it's probably not quite as appealing to you as it is to your other half.

    Hugs and best of luck for the next cycle.
  • So sorry to hear that Freddie, take care of yourself and Mrs F. Big hugs xx

    CD23 4DPO here, nothing to report really. Really really going to try and relax and NOT TEST at all this month until after potential AF (24th apparently).

    Still getting High on the CBFM... really annoying now, not to mention a big old waste of sticks!!

    Hugs to all who need them x



    MancMama4 (35) TTC since Apr 15, MMC Dec 15, Our Rainbow Baby Charlie arrived Dec 16 :heart2:
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear that Freddie - the symptoms sounded so positive again. Big hugs to you both. Xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Milliebob
    Milliebob Posts: 248 Forumite
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    Big hugs Freddie, it's devastating when you've got your hopes up.

    I'm CD18 and same as MancMama, 4dpo. Ovid says I can test in 9 days. Really trying to relax this cycle. I'm going to try not test until Sat 24th.
    Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
    Happy Comper since Dec 2013
    Baby #1 Sept 2012
    Wedding 21st May 2015
    TTC Baby #2 since 5/15
  • Thanks all, did feel rubbish all day. Tricky hiding it when your job means you're in front of people for the whole day (teacher)

    Such a huge feeling of disappointment. But we'll be alright. Had already agreed to visit her parents for dinner tonight which we both really wished we hadn't as really not in the mood. But was ok.

    Her AF is very heavy, thick with clots, very dark colour. Thinking it's possible that this was a very early miscarriage.

    Either way, we won't have a clue when next AF will be due. Will just have to BD constantly for the next month!
    Mortgage remaining: £42,260 of £77,000 (2.59% til 03/18 - 2.09% til 03/23)

    Savings target June 18 - £22,281.99 / £25,000
  • ThinkPink
    ThinkPink Posts: 893 Forumite
    Oh no Freddie, sorry to hear that, I really thought it was going to be your month.

    Afm, I'm thinking af is going to arrive in the next day or so. This would put me at another day cycle of around 40 days, which is not great, but it's much better than it was!
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