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pregnancy- is it possible???

ok I don't want to be judged on my morals but im in this situation


im in a long term relationship which is generally v good although we have both had one night stands in the past but moved on from them. on xmas eve literally first thing in the morning I slept with one of my male friends, my partner doesn't know. I had previously been on the pill but didn't open a new packet last month as I planned to have the implant.


I haven't had a regular period since coming off the pill, but immediately after sex on xmas eve I bled slightly so assumed that was my period, but I only lasted a day.


I am feeling sick and really tired despite being off work (teacher so no work for a few days lol), is it likely I would feel like this so early on in pregnancy? terrified I may be pregnant
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  • System
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    its unlikely there would be signs this early on- my first signs [sore boobs] were a about 4 weeks.
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  • girlycara wrote: »
    ok I don't want to be judged on my morals but im in this situation


    im in a long term relationship which is generally v good although we have both had one night stands in the past but moved on from them. on xmas eve literally first thing in the morning I slept with one of my male friends, my partner doesn't know. I had previously been on the pill but didn't open a new packet last month as I planned to have the implant.


    I haven't had a regular period since coming off the pill, but immediately after sex on xmas eve I bled slightly so assumed that was my period, but I only lasted a day.


    I am feeling sick and really tired despite being off work (teacher so no work for a few days lol), is it likely I would feel like this so early on in pregnancy? terrified I may be pregnant

    The sensible thing would be to take a pregnancy test as soon as you miss a period.
  • I think there's a good chance you could be.
  • Ah, just read that you havent had a regular period since coming off the pill, even so, Id arrange to get a pregnancy test done as soon as you can do a test, its better than asking could you be pregnant, better to know one way or another.

    Its not all to do with morals, as you are finding out now, if you sleep with more than one person, get pregnant, that brings a whole lot of circumstances your way.
  • j.e.j.
    j.e.j. Posts: 9,672 Forumite
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    girlycara wrote: »
    ok I don't want to be judged on my morals but im in this situation

    Just a hint, if you don't want to be judged on your morals, I would just put the basics of the situation, ie unprotected sex on xmas eve, have come off the pill, etc, rather than saying who you cheated on your partner with ;)
  • fabforty
    fabforty Posts: 809 Forumite
    The sensible thing would be to take a pregnancy test as soon as you miss a period.



    Followed swiftly by an STI check.
  • j.e.j. wrote: »
    Just a hint, if you don't want to be judged on your morals, I would just put the basics of the situation, ie unprotected sex on xmas eve, have come off the pill, etc, rather than saying who you cheated on your partner with ;)

    Yes but trolls don't get as much attention if they just keep to the basics.
  • oh grow up ronaldo
  • Lily-Rose_3
    Lily-Rose_3 Posts: 2,732 Forumite
    girlycara wrote: »
    ok I don't want to be judged on my morals but im in this situation

    im in a long term relationship which is generally v good although we have both had one night stands in the past but moved on from them. on xmas eve literally first thing in the morning I slept with one of my male friends, my partner doesn't know. I had previously been on the pill but didn't open a new packet last month as I planned to have the implant.

    I haven't had a regular period since coming off the pill, but immediately after sex on xmas eve I bled slightly so assumed that was my period, but I only lasted a day.

    I am feeling sick and really tired despite being off work (teacher so no work for a few days lol), is it likely I would feel like this so early on in pregnancy? terrified I may be pregnant

    Words fail me. :huh:

    Maybe I am old fashioned, but being in a long term relationship, (marriage actually!) it would not be 'ok' with me for either of us to have one night stands.

    You know, taking a pregnancy test would be a whole lot easier and quicker than posting threads on here, telling people not to 'judge your morals.'

    And what did you EXPECT people to do anyway? ;)
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  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    girlycara wrote: »
    oh grow up ronaldo

    Haha, well either you're a troll or you're a...
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