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Update on my pof date

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  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Why? It depends who you are? They may be after the same thing, in which case I'd rather they keep to the house!! :rotfl:

    Because you never know who you're meeting? The same reason we tell children not to talk to strangers....
  • tara747 wrote: »
    :rotfl: What kind of person would invite a total stranger off the interweb to their house on a first date, never mind letting said stranger see their bank statements??? :rotfl:

    I had a friend that did just that. Picked up several different men off the internet and asked them to come straight to her home. I cut her out of my life because she would not listen to my advice about her or her child's safety.
  • It's usually worth the wait, though, as introverts are very rarely bad news.

    As an introvert, I feel obliged to agree!
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  • VEGPIP
    VEGPIP Posts: 104 Forumite
    leeroy2009 wrote: »
    either that or she wants me to go through her finances and help her swap to a better bank and or credit card account ;)

    imagine if it's a big hairy man
  • leeroy2009
    leeroy2009 Posts: 591 Forumite
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    edited 10 December 2014 at 5:52PM
    haha, some of you don't understand humour nor sarcasm, some of you do though, I can assure you shes all female nor is this a joke, and of course ill let you know how we got on.


    and not the first time ive been to a females house on a first date either, was with the last one 7 years after our "house date"


    and we are both old enough, consenting adults to allow whatever happens happen, and if she asks me to stay the night then ill oblige, providing there is bacon in the fridge for a sandwich the next morning.
  • leeroy2009 wrote: »
    haha, some of you don't understand humour nor sarcasm, some of you do though, I can assure you shes all female nor is this a joke, and of course ill let you know how we got on.


    and not the first time ive been to a females house on a first date either, was with the last one 7 years after our "house date"


    and we are both old enough, consenting adults to allow whatever happens happen, and if she asks me to stay the night then ill oblige, providing there is bacon in the fridge for a sandwich the next morning.

    This thread started with someone wanting to update on her date.

    Not really sure why anyone would need updates on whether you actually sleep with some girl you've met online.

    And maybe if you have a bit of respect for her, you won't let the forum know how you got on.
  • This thread started with someone wanting to update on her date.

    Not really sure why anyone would need updates on whether you actually sleep with some girl you've met online.

    And maybe if you have a bit of respect for her, you won't let the forum know how you got on.



    sorry should of said id let the op know how things went, and I don't believe I have mentioned sleeping with her, a spoon would be fine for the first night lol.
  • Consenting adults to allow whatever happens happen, is what you said in the previous post. I dont think people need to be consenting adults to spoon with someone in bed, do you :)
  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    Consenting adults to allow whatever happens happen, is what you said in the previous post. I dont think people need to be consenting adults to spoon with someone in bed, do you :)

    You do a bit.

    I mean, imagine it, you're lying there getting your snooze on and then someone walks up and just spoons with you. You wouldn't be happy would you? At best, that's assault.
  • Tropez wrote: »
    You do a bit.

    I mean, imagine it, you're lying there getting your snooze on and then someone walks up and just spoons with you. You wouldn't be happy would you? At best, that's assault.

    Well I don't know about anyone else, but I don't randomly have people in my flat that I don't know who are likely just to walk into my bed and spoon with me:rotfl:

    My post was in response to someone else suggesting that whatever happen happens was spooning as opposed to having sex with his date.

    Anyway I'm sure he'll be back on to update about his bacon sandwich in the morning, not sure I'll sleep till then but hey ho.
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