Update on my pof date

VEGPIP

Hi all

Some of you may remember me writing last week about my date not wanting to speak on phone etc and then trying to chicken out of the date.

Well he tried to again today but I told him no so he made it.
I'm so glad he did since he was true to his pic and his texts and we had a great evening at the pub, he was sooo nervous bless him but I think I put him at ease. A total gentleman even got a kiss on cheek after.

Thanks for all ur advice when it was needed

owen_money

Kiss on the cheek 'after'? After what? You saucy madam

VEGPIP

owen_money wrote: »

Kiss on the cheek 'after'? After what? You saucy madam

haha after the date Owen!! I don't kiss on first date! but that was nice of him!!

LostSoulForever

Pleased it went well for you, i didn't get a chance to post on the other thread but did wonder how things would go.

supermassive

I think I mentioned in the other thread about how men on dating sites are usually one of two things - a rampant nymphomaniac, or cripplingly shy. This is a case of the latter (thankfully!).

Most men that choose to use those websites are usually socially awkward and far too self aware in public (welcome to my life!) so until the 500th date, you won't really get to know him for how he really truly is! It's usually worth the wait, though, as introverts are very rarely bad news.

leeroy2009

I also, had a go on pof last week, have, now for 4 days been texting a female constantly back n forth, im off to her house this week for a cuppa, and she wants to be kissed on the 1st date, so things are looking up lol

VEGPIP

LostSoulForever wrote: »

Pleased it went well for you, i didn't get a chance to post on the other thread but did wonder how things would go.

aww thank you just both relieved we got the first date done and both enjoyed it he admitted last nite he just don't do full on phone calls never has done

VEGPIP

supermassive wrote: »

I think I mentioned in the other thread about how men on dating sites are usually one of two things - a rampant nymphomaniac, or cripplingly shy. This is a case of the latter (thankfully!).

Most men that choose to use those websites are usually socially awkward and far too self aware in public (welcome to my life!) so until the 500th date, you won't really get to know him for how he really truly is! It's usually worth the wait, though, as introverts are very rarely bad news.

ur rite, cripplingly shy he was but after a while he calmed down and was very sweet, a gentleman.

obviously it's only one date and our work schedules suck but there will b a second date.

VEGPIP

leeroy2009 wrote: »

I also, had a go on pof last week, have, now for 4 days been texting a female constantly back n forth, im off to her house this week for a cuppa, and she wants to be kissed on the 1st date, so things are looking up lol

her house? wow that's brave I'd say she's lookin for more than a kiss haha

leeroy2009

VEGPIP wrote: »

her house? wow that's brave I'd say she's lookin for more than a kiss haha

either that or she wants me to go through her finances and help her swap to a better bank and or credit card account

leeroy2009

supermassive wrote: »

I think I mentioned in the other thread about how men on dating sites are usually one of two things - a rampant nymphomaniac, or cripplingly shy. This is a case of the latter (thankfully!).

Most men that choose to use those websites are usually socially awkward and far too self aware in public (welcome to my life!) so until the 500th date, you won't really get to know him for how he really truly is! It's usually worth the wait, though, as introverts are very rarely bad news.

what if he is shy and rampant, and trust me some of the females on there are just as rampant as the lads, I guess its all to do with whats on the end of ya hook.