Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

beanielou

Cumbria_lass wrote: »

Beanie , hope you got the bank fraud thing sorted out. Cat litter trays are not my favourite thing but if you need them then you need them.

How are you feeling today, it's been quite mild here , and a nice day for a walk.

Seems like it was a mistake?:mad::mad:

Have not been over the door.
Was reading my book & then fell asleep.

Lots of fireworks tonight.

beanielou

In other news yet again British Gas have taken the wrong DD amount.
It is way lower than it should be & it will leave me owing them money which is not great.
Why does it always feel that it happens to me :mad:
Something else I dont feel I have the emotional energy to cope with.
What a wimp.

Karmacat

Beanie, you sound stressed by **everything** right now, and I'm sure you don't have the emotional energy to cope with this stuff because the facts of day to day living take almost everything you've got



Is there anything that would feel nice to do? Not a "should", like my should is the council walk, but something you really like?

please-let-me-be-lucky

You are in no way a wimp! Infact, you are one of the strongest people I know!

Sorry everything seems tough right now. I hope you can find it in you to give British Gas both barrels and demand some compensation Xx

HairyHandofDartmoor

Things like that can really push you over the edge and it takes a bit of energy to sort them out.

Can you find a way to pamper yourself as Karma suggests?

Hazelnutty

Just to add to the chorus! Is there something that adds to your emotional energy bank? A bath, chat with a friend, luxury hot choc, glass of vino, time with a book?

Butti

beanielou wrote: »

In other news yet again British Gas have taken the wrong DD amount.
It is way lower than it should be & it will leave me owing them money which is not great.
Why does it always feel that it happens to me :mad:
Something else I dont feel I have the emotional energy to cope with.
What a wimp.

You ARE NOT a wimp. You're biggest failing is sometimes talking complete tosh like 'what a wimp!'


My name is Beanie and I am a very strong person

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I'm switching utility companies and this month they've both taken DDs. The whole lot are pretty inept in my view Beanie.

WeeMidgie

beanielou wrote: »

I have to say I hate hate hate hate having the litter tray.

Beanie, the best cat litter I've found is from B&M, it's crystals which lock in the odour. I have 2 litter scoops, one with slots which allows the crystals through which is for sifting out 'solids', and a scoop with no slots in it for removing 'yellowed' crystals. I thought it might be expensive to use but there's less waste, I find.

I used to loathe the pong which happened with every other type of litter I tried. I do litter duty when the daily bath is running (I live in a flat and the only space for the litter tray is between the loo and the bath). All my visitors assure me there's no whiff.

milann

You are a strong and resourceful lady.....don’t let anything let you forget that - even if you don’t feel it :beer:

beanielou

Karmacat wrote: »

Beanie, you sound stressed by **everything** right now, and I'm sure you don't have the emotional energy to cope with this stuff because the facts of day to day living take almost everything you've got

This is true I think.


Is there anything that would feel nice to do? Not a "should", like my should is the council walk, but something you really like?

Go out for a nice meal & relax!!