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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • liltdiddylilt
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    I am so sorry Beanie.

    Lots of love and Bear as always what a lovely sentiment xx
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  • Karmacat
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    Oh Beanie, I'm sorry to hear this. I know it was expected, but it must be so hard.

    Loving thoughts xxx
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  • judi24
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    So sorry to hear about your friend Beanie - Life is cruel sometimes!


    I am just catching up after being a little awol for a while!
    and now 'get' your reference to my work! All I can say is that loosing a friend or loved one is hard, however there is often the opportunity in the grief and sadness to reflect on the importance of loved ones and friends to us and a realisation that life should not be taken for granted - its easy to state the old clich!s about life being short etc - but in reality it is true!


    Hugs to you x
  • beanielou
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    Nothing at all happening on the mortgage front at all.Zilch.
    My back has been in spasm since Thursday so I am an unhappy beanie.
    Despite ever increasing meds it is hardly improving.
    Bah is is.
    Will keep plodding~~very very slowly.
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  • Butti
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    Aw Beanie , what a crap situation.
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  • Take care mrs and go easy on the plodding for a bit.
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  • Firegirl
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    I had a bad back for years! I couldn't carry anything even slightly heavy and it was hard to breath at times. Over 10 years I tried 5 different osteopaths. The 5th one worked wonders in 3 sessions and now I go once every few years. Keep searching for your 'person'. You'll find them eventually:0)

    Hope you feel better soon.
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  • Karmacat
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    So sorry to hear this, beanie. What firegirl says about osteopaths is true, though. I don't know if you can afford one, but if you can find the *right* one (and if its something that can be affected by osteopathic input) they can work miracles. Friend of mine has a daughter in her early 30s, who's always had back pain - in the last year, the back pain has been sorted, and she's 1.5 inches taller - in her 30s!

    Positive vibes, beanie.
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  • beanielou
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    Back still no better.
    A new record for it to be in spasm this long.
    Pain id dire & moving very difficult.
    Back at GP & meds have been doubled.
    Will be a total zombie.
    DS gave me a lift to GP & then chemist & posted my letters.
    GF has not offered to help at all.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]
  • Upsidedown_Bear
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    Sending love and gentle hugs as always :A
    Wish I could do more xx
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