Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

beanielou

Thanks lovely peeps.
Also a lot going on home wise which I am finding very tough & very difficult to deal with.
It appears I am not nice, very difficult to talk too & tell lies.
That was me told then.

elantan

beanielou wrote: »

Thanks lovely peeps.
Also a lot going on home wise which I am finding very tough & very difficult to deal with.
It appears I am not nice, very difficult to talk too & tell lies.
That was me told then.

Oh hell really not good... If its any help at all Ive never found you to be so... Mr El likes you tonnes ( and often asks about you... including today) chine up beanie xxxx

Butti

beanielou wrote: »

It appears I am not nice, very difficult to talk too & tell lies.

You know Beanie, you really must stop socialising with Voldemort!!!!

I was also told that I was difficult to talk to and that I lie. My dad told me. That's how I knew it was a load of b*llocks. Sometimes you need to listen to someone with a more balanced view......like us! Like El, I would have to disagree, I've always found you amazingly supportive.

skint_spice

Ach Beanie, you are a special lady, even offering me support when you are at your lowest. Some folk are bonkers.

in_need_of_direction

Beanie you go out of your way to help people communicate and I am very grateful that you did. Don't let other people's stupidity and nastiness upset you.

gallygirl

beanielou wrote: »

Thanks lovely peeps.
Also a lot going on home wise which I am finding very tough & very difficult to deal with.
It appears I am not nice, very difficult to talk too & tell lies.
That was me told then.

That was you told all right :eek:. And explains why you have no friends whatsover on here........... Muppet, whoever it was :mad:.

beanielou

Means so very much~~thank you all.

Karmacat

I agree with the peeps on here! Thats not you at all ... whoever it is, they're talking from their own stuff, not about you :kisses3::kisses3:

beanielou

Was at a funeral yesterday.
Someone my age.
Such a bleeping waste.
My other friend continues to be really unwell.

I just would love to spend money on something really frothy & daft.

On another note.
Some advice please.
My (not so at the mo) DS is 22 this year.
I am still paying life insurance so that my mortgage is paid off if I pop my cloggs before it is paid off.
I am veering towards cancelling it.
Thoughts?

Karmacat

Ooh, beanie ... sorry about your friend, first of all

What I'd say right away, though, is don't make financial decisions as a result of anger or grief. Wait a bit, even a month or so, and work it through. On here, bit by bit, after journalling about it, if need be.

Take care of yourself, especially today - I know you're not well, and a funeral is stressful at the best of times. Bad day today for me as well, 6 years ago today, I was wandering about St George's Intensive Care Unit in a daze, having sat by a bedside overnight