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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    Not sure I would agree with you re my condition being worse than yours, I think life circumstances through different things at us both, and our condition is unique in how it presents itself , I choose to buy and use a wheelchair because I have had enough of the chronic pain, fatigue and the impact on my body of falling.... I admire you greatly that you are still determined to keep uprightly mobile for as long as you can :A:A:A

    Thank you for sharing you are struggling, I hope it brings comfort that others can empathise, feel we are also not alone and say you are a star, keep plodding and I hope you have a warm duvet, a good book and cake which is a medicinal prescription for us both at the mo ;)
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,134 Ambassador
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    Bubblesmum wrote: »
    Not sure I would agree with you re my condition being worse than yours, I think life circumstances through different things at us both, and our condition is unique in how it presents itself , I choose to buy and use a wheelchair because I have had enough of the chronic pain, fatigue and the impact on my body of falling.... I admire you greatly that you are still determined to keep uprightly mobile for as long as you can :A:A:A

    Thank you for sharing you are struggling, I hope it brings comfort that others can empathise, feel we are also not alone and say you are a star, keep plodding and I hope you have a warm duvet, a good book and cake which is a medicinal prescription for us both at the mo ;)

    Thank you for letting me see a different way of thinking.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,134 Ambassador
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    :o:o:o Was at dentist today for the first part of a crown.
    It could not procced as my muscles were so tight that it was just a bleeping nightmare.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,183 Forumite
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    Oh beanielou I feel for you. I hate the dentists.

    On the other hand once it is done the crown will protect your tooth and you will keep it longer :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,134 Ambassador
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    The crown will not be going ahead due to the muscle problems.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Karmacat
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    Oh beanie! What about muscle relaxants? Surely they can do something, if you need a crown, then you *do*! I know that even ordinary work on my teeth, other than a hygienist appointment, gives me muscle ache for 3 days afterwards, its so unnatural to hold your mouth in these positions :(
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,134 Ambassador
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    I take two kinds of muscle relaxants already Karmcat.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Bubblesmum
    Bubblesmum Posts: 1,778 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    The crown will not be going ahead due to the muscle problems.

    I so feel for you, I had a cervical smear yesterday, and my dear body decided to spasm in the middle of it :eek::eek:. Fortunately I have an understanding GP.

    I also have had problems with dentists, not helpful when you spasm and bite down on your dentist :o:o:o

    The biggest thing that I have found helped, my dentist ( yes private - no other round here ) has this DVD glasses which I wear and watch a movie usually Nottinghill - I find I am so completely absorbed in the film that my body does relax enough for him to clamp my mouth open with a device, so I don't have to do it myself.

    Is it worth researching dentists?

    Hugs and loves
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
    What does the saying say.... When life hands you lemons, make lemonade
    Or as my Mum would say, brush yourself down, tomorrow is another day or
    Fake it, to you Make It

    Please say hello my new diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6578460/still-dancing-to-blow-the-debt-clouds-away
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,134 Ambassador
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    So my best boy's dissatation is in.
    Technically his last task as an undergraduate.
    He has a conference next month and that is him
    So proud of him as it has not been an easy road.
    Where have the last 4 years gone.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Pooky
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    Well done to him Beanie - DD1 still needs to write hers but she started full time work this week so she's juggling time at the moment.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
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