Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

milann

Beanie show the bullies they haven’t won. Hope you’re comparing yourself for the right reasons.
Beanie is kind - bullies are not
Beanie is strong - bullies are cowards if they get their fun belittling others
Beanie is resourceful - bullies have no imagination 
Beanie doesn’t give up - bullies gave up being decent humans
Beanie loves her animals - often bullies are cruel to animals as well as people
Beanie has a great sense of humour - bullies humour isn’t funny (it’s usually cruel)
Just think what you’ve done when comparing yourself to others.....
You’ve brought a child up on your own- I’d struggle doing that - there are two of us, and that wasn’t easy
You’ve virtually paid your mortgage to ensure you have a roof over your head
You’re doing home improvements to keep that home safe and comfortable 
You volunteer at the FB 
You are a loving mum and daughter and friend
You  keep on plodding on and encouraging many others as you do.
Annnd that’s what I know of you from here - and I don’t know you properly in RL.
It’s hard being ‘different’ and having to find your own way of doing things and having to cope with falls, pain and physio - you really do an amazing job 👏👏👏👏👏👏 

beanielou

Thank you Buffster. 

If only children & young people realised the long term impact. This all started 50 years ago & here we are...........
Bah. Bah. Bah 

beanielou

milann said:

Beanie show the bullies they haven’t won. Hope you’re comparing yourself for the right reasons.
Beanie is kind - bullies are not
Beanie is strong - bullies are cowards if they get their fun belittling others
Beanie is resourceful - bullies have no imagination 
Beanie doesn’t give up - bullies gave up being decent humans
Beanie loves her animals - often bullies are cruel to animals as well as people
Beanie has a great sense of humour - bullies humour isn’t funny (it’s usually cruel)
Just think what you’ve done when comparing yourself to others.....
You’ve brought a child up on your own- I’d struggle doing that - there are two of us, and that wasn’t easy
You’ve virtually paid your mortgage to ensure you have a roof over your head
You’re doing home improvements to keep that home safe and comfortable 
You volunteer at the FB 
You are a loving mum and daughter and friend
You  keep on plodding on and encouraging many others as you do.
Annnd that’s what I know of you from here - and I don’t know you properly in RL.
It’s hard being ‘different’ and having to find your own way of doing things and having to cope with falls, pain and physio - you really do an amazing job 👏👏👏👏👏👏 

Wow. Thanks so much. 

Speechless. 

Sunshine_girl2

Couldn't agree more with what Milann says . Keep going Beanie . 

lucielle

Its all been said before Beanie, you are brilliant
L

beanielou

lucielle said:

Its all been said before Beanie, you are brilliant
L

Sunshine_girl2 said:

Couldn't agree more with what Milann says . Keep going Beanie . 

Thank you both. 😊

beanielou

Today is a good day. 

I am going to have a massage this afternoon. This is a Christmas gift from 2019 & that’s me finally getting to use it!! 

I got a lovely gift yesterday of a wee night cream which smelt divine and I had an amazing sleep last night. Wow. What a difference that makes. 

milann

The day is always better after a good nights sleep. Enjoy the massage 👏👏

Sun_Addict

Really pleased to hear you sounding so much more positive today.  Enjoy the massage 😊

Seasidegal58

What a wonderful post @milann!  And so true!

Though I've never met you in RL beanie I admire you so much for all that you do and how you cope. Lots of hugs!

I do hope you have a lovely, lovely massage and enjoy using your new night cream. 

@Crystal - sending hugs to you too.