Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

jwil

beanielou said:

Another day of manipulation. 

I am very tired this week & trying to do less which for me means not terribly much. My biggest failure is in comparing my self to others of a similar age. As my physio says she thinks I do amazingly well under the circumstances. 

I also think that you do amazingly well, listen to your physio!  I hope you can rest up.  

RosaBernicia

Another vote that you're awesome 

RB xx

beanielou

Thank you both  xx

Sun_Addict

Listen to your physio and never compare yourself to anyone else. Everyone is different. You do really well given the circumstances and have a lot to be proud of, more than you give yourself credit for.

beanielou

Thank you SA. 

No self confidence due to bullying sadly. 

Sun_Addict

Don’t let the bullies win, you’re better than that. I hope they remember what they did and are thoroughly ashamed of themselves now. Bullying makes me so angry, it’s totally unacceptable 😡

jwil

Sun_Addict said:

Don’t let the bullies win, you’re better than that. I hope they remember what they did and are thoroughly ashamed of themselves now. Bullying makes me so angry, it’s totally unacceptable 😡

I agree

Chrystal

I really hope you start to feel better in yourself soon Lou.  
OH has been bedridden for over 20 years, with all that entails, hoist etc, and although I'm mobile (after a fashion) I find it difficult more often than not.  I say to OH that we have to be thankful for everything that we can do, and not dwell on what we can't do.   Easy to say, but must admit it can be hard at times.  
Remember, when your confidence is low,  that there a an awful lot of people who are on your side and wish you well in everything you do. (((hugs))) X

beanielou

Chrystal said:

I really hope you start to feel better in yourself soon Lou.  
OH has been bedridden for over 20 years, with all that entails, hoist etc, and although I'm mobile (after a fashion) I find it difficult more often than not.  I say to OH that we have to be thankful for everything that we can do, and not dwell on what we can't do.   Easy to say, but must admit it can be hard at times.  
Remember, when your confidence is low,  that there a an awful lot of people who are on your side and wish you well in everything you do. (((hugs))) X

Blimey, I am so sorry to read that.
That must be very difficult for you both.
Sending you much love  xx

Buffythedebtslayer

Bullies are truly scum. 
I am forever telling kids that we only have the words we say and the things we do. I wish human beings were better. 

Big love to you Beanie, I wish you understood and believed that you are amazing, we all think it and so many of us including me owe you such a lot. Utterly amazing. 
XXXX