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What do you get your boyfriend/ husband for Christmas?

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  • lulu_92
    lulu_92 Posts: 2,758 Forumite
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    I'm making OH a christmas cake and some boozy fudge. He will also get boxers and socks (as he does every year. How his boxers turn into skirts I will never know.... :rotfl:) I don't bother getting him aftershave as his mum gets that.

    He'll just get stocking fillers from me unless I get bonus.

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  • I've bought two tickets to an event I know he will love. He will be given them on the understanding that he can take whoever he wants as long as it isn't me!

    I'll also buy a couple of other small things, eg sweets, book.

    He's really hard to buy for and in the past he has had the usual - clothes, aftershave, sweets, books, CDs, watch etc.

    This year I'm so glad I've been able to get him something he really won't be expecting and will love.
  • Alidolly
    Alidolly Posts: 791 Forumite
    Bought DH a bass guitar a few years back (plus amp) as he mentioned he'd always wanted to learn to play and spotted a good deal on ebay. Last year it was a turntable for vinyl records which he was thrilled about

    This year its a surprise (just in case...:cool:)
  • Got my OH a couple of PS4 games, a few Blu Rays and Blu Ray box sets, new PS4 controller, PS4 camera, PS4 charging station and a couple of band t shirt/hoodies I know he will like.
  • bluenose1
    bluenose1 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
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    Mostly Practical presents, boring I know.

    Football socks
    Shirts and tie for work
    Aftershave
    Smellies
    New razor
    Chocolates.
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  • melanzana
    melanzana Posts: 3,953 Forumite
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    We don't buy each other anything!

    So...I spend X on you, and you spend Y on me, all well and good, but do we NEED it?

    Nah, it is totally rubbish IMV.

    But we have a weekend away in January courtesy of the dosh we saved not buying each other any tatt pressies.

    That is always wonderful.
  • A couple of books he has mentioned wanting to read, some fancy toiletries, and an ice-cream maker. He needs some new t-shirts as well so will buy him a couple online.
    His birthday is only a few days after Christmas which makes it tricky because I have to get two sets of presents close together - I don't want to buy him joint presents because a lot of his family do that, and it doesn't seem fair that he misses out on proper birthday things just because of the time of year he was born.
  • A couple of books he has mentioned wanting to read, some fancy toiletries, and an ice-cream maker. He needs some new t-shirts as well so will buy him a couple online.
    His birthday is only a few days after Christmas which makes it tricky because I have to get two sets of presents close together - I don't want to buy him joint presents because a lot of his family do that, and it doesn't seem fair that he misses out on proper birthday things just because of the time of year he was born.

    Part of the reason we don't do xmas presents is to try and readdress that balance! DH has a birthday soon after xmas and found that people (even relatives) would focus on xmas and forget his birthday. We make a big fuss of birthdays and pretty much ignore xmas! It helps that we don't have our xmas celebrations at xmas - this year we'll be doing it in early december. For significant birthdays he gets a second birthday in the summer. :D
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  • clarryd
    clarryd Posts: 637 Forumite
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    He has got me he doesn't need presents, LOL only joking.

    I always buy him a pair of trainers, a few pairs jeans and a few sweat jumpers. He also get little things like smellies, chocolate beer glass fancy socks.
  • I'm struggling with money this year quite a lot, but we're going on a weekend away to London in a few weeks. One of my OH's best friends lives in Brighton, and he only gets to see her maybe twice a year, so I've organised for her to meet us in London for lunch on our last day as a surprise for him. Hopefully he'll think that's a much better gift than anything I could buy in the shops :)
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