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  • SavingPennies_2
    SavingPennies_2 Posts: 869 Forumite
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    edited 7 October 2014 at 7:37PM
    I'm very much in favour of paying parents "keep" especially on your wage and at your age...but £900 per month, plus food and bills?! I'd have moved out long ago, would be cheaper to rent and you'd have your independence.


    Edit:
    Oh and you should worry about paying half of his parents mortgage if you move in with them, they haven't got one! You should however contribute to food and bills and help out with housework. That seems fair to me.
  • sara46
    sara46 Posts: 14 Forumite
    that might be true but I didn't want to I was happy to be at home
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    I'm very much in favour of paying parents "keep" especially on your wage and at your age...but £900 per month, plus food and bills?! I'd have moved out long ago, would be cheaper to rent and you'd have your independence.

    I agree. If the OP has been paying the parents £900 a month PLUS all food and bills then she could have saved a lot by moving out. Were your parents not paying anything themselves?
  • sara46
    sara46 Posts: 14 Forumite
    for my parents me and another person in the house
  • Fair enough, still seems like a lot to pay though. I'm sure your boyfriend won't dump you, he wouldn't be a very nice boyfriend if he did! So yes maybe you could have saved more, but at least you've saved something and you aren't in debt, so you're not that bad with money.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    So on one teacher's salary, you've kept four people AND managed to save £6k? I can't see how anyone could call that 'being bad with money'.
  • sara46
    sara46 Posts: 14 Forumite
    Saving pennies I farm already after school and id have no problem paying bills etc no problem at all
  • sara46 wrote: »
    Saving pennies I farm already after school and id have no problem paying bills etc no problem at all

    Sorry I don't understand what that means, but yes I agree you are good at saving that's what I meant. I'm not really sure what you are concerned about, once you move in with his parents you will be able to save more and if he has been living rent free he must have decent savings too, he has no reason to dump you and you have no reason to worry.
  • sara46
    sara46 Posts: 14 Forumite
    thanks savingpennies for your very kind response much appreciated
  • Archi_Bald
    Archi_Bald Posts: 9,681 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    is it half term already?
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