Need to get myself together: The beginning

kindofagilr

Hi monz, so sorry to hear about your friend, and your friends boyfriend xxx

Yay for money back from Scottish power

I hope the nursery get back to you soon, that's not on the way they have messed you about xx

selloptape

Hi Monz,

Thanks for sharing your diary, I'm a single mum too so have loved reading about other single mums experiences on the site, although sorry to see you're having a tough time lately.

In case this helps just wanted to mention that the nursery should be able to issue you a statement showing all your payments from start to finish, the whole time you've used them, on the dates they received. I had to get this once for TCs. That way you know exactly what payment they don't think they've had and you'll be able to prove that you have paid them.

Sorry if you've already thought of this but I thought I'd mention in case as sounds like you have a lot on your plate - good luck with everything!x

monz

Well well well... Got this this morning from nursery

Morning Monica,

I have now spoken with Richard and the 2 days holiday, that had been added to Connor's account has now been taken off, with the confirmation of holiday dates you gave me; thanks for this.

With this now taken off, and the deposit used to subsidise the other outstanding fees, we owe you £5.87 back.

I can have this put aside for you at the nursery if you wish to come and collect this?

I'm sorry this has been upsetting and stressful for you but I hope this now finalises this for you and you can have a sigh of relief.

Speak soon

Jennifer

I am going to tell her to keep the £5 odds and buy the kids something with it as truly I do not want to go back there after all this.

Anyway had a good wee weekend. Was out with my friends.

Update on my friend with cancer - its not good news she was found to have internal bleeding and cannot move her arms now. We dont know why but its not good news i think when Doctors are telling her partner please bring the kids up everyday now though I havent told him I think that. Again i do not know.

The idiot was back from his holidays spoke to him on phone last night was on for an hour n will see him tomorrow.

Thanks for advice everyone and hi sellotape x

17 days until pay day and 25 days until tax credits. xx

abba1772

That's great news about the nursery owing you money ........must be a weight off your shoulders having that sorted xx

monz

Yeah it truly is. I was going to hold off the Scottish Power money I was about to receive (anyday now 5-7 days) so now the £74.96 will get transferred as overpayment to my loan and the rest is for my sons birthday party and tae kwon do grading xx

monz

Nothing much to report today. Waiting on my Scottish Power Refund to go through still. Other than that nothing

16 days until pay day and 24 until tax credits due in

xx

moneyonmymindsam

16 days to go for me too....:rotfl:

monz

Hey everyone

My money for Scottish Power has came in £40 to my boys tae kwon do, £80 his bouncy castle, an unexpected my boys school pics £34 (have to ) so paid £40.96 I was left with to my loan. Will update my signature.

Hope everyone is well.

14 days until payday and 22 days until tax credits x

abba1772

Glad you didn't have to wait long to for your refund

Sounds like you're all set for your sons birthday xx

monz

Friday

Nothing to report tbh Though I have noted paid back over £3,000 debt in a year wow! n annoys me that cd have been me and my boy a holiday next year booking florida tho

13 days until payday and 21 days until tax credit xx