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Need to get myself together: The beginning

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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    After this weekend because I am stuck, I am done with them. I have literally noone else and they use this against me because they know it. They even scream at me cos I say we are a family of two.... we bloody are and thats it. Just worked up the now :/

    Anyway cashed out my first £2.50 on OP my new we gem thanks Hidden <3 xx
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  • Aw monz, no wonder you are worked up.

    It's shocking how they treat you.

    To cheer you up you might be able to access that £7 social media survey on PA!

    Dxxx
  • abba1772
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    Aww monz your parents are awful how mature are they especially in front of your son they need to put their dummy back in

    Know what you mean about Glasgow I avoid driving through there would rather get the train tbh

    You are a family of two and a great wee family you are don't let anyone tell you any different xx

    We all make mistakes as long as we learn from them that's the main thing and you have......sounds like your parents are !!!!ed off with you because you don't depend on them as much as you should xx

    You get your own wee bought house and you show them how better you are than them...............I've done it and I'm so proud of how far I've come and I grew up in Arden / castlemilk or as I say I was dragged up but I always vowed I would make a better life for myself and my children than the life I had when I was a child xx
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Aw honestly its torture as for spending time with them I see them bloody every day and have breakfast and dinner with them on a Sunday!!! Thats more than enough and I work with my mother. I need away from them more if anything :(!

    At 9.15 on VO. Think I can get a voucher tomorrow and reach £30 /£50.

    PA is at £1.95 confirmed and £6 pending.

    xxx
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    So I got home last night to find out another student in my boys class stabbed him in the eye (intentionally) with a pencil. The school did not phone me, get the girl to apologise or call her parents (to my knowledge right now - calling on my lunch), she got a yellow card for no special play that she can "earn" back. I am livid she could have blinded him or worse!!!! Spoke to another parent and heard she spit on another boy and nothing was done. This is beyond a joke.

    7 days until payday. x
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  • wow hope he's okay Monz! She shoulds delightful :o
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    it could have went in his eye!!! Had nightmares he was being blinded or stuck in his eye! its abso dreadful I want her out the school xxx Contemplating phoning the police
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  • No way!

    I would get the police involved if the school doesn't take any more serious action - what a joke!

    Wonder what would have happened if it had been the other way around.

    Dxxx
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    I havent called the school. Before everyone says anything I am now noting down everything that has happened at this school since he starts in primary one. this girl incident does not deem bullying but I will be watching its not on Connor only. I might ask for late shift and take him to school next week in hope seeing head mistress. I dont want them to see I phone everytime something happens. Make no mistake I will not forget it though. I will be now questioning my son on every single thing though!

    Reached £10 for VO and cashed out. So now at £30. Hopefully next week can cash out another £10 next week .xxx
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    My boy came home from school fine yesterday, could not concentrate until I had my boy back. They moved the girl to a different table and she told him she didnt like him so she was banned from computer play lol. To a 6 year old this is justice. I am glad he is standing up for himself though.

    Been thinking that for October week surprise my boy with a trip to Legoland for a cpl days and just wake him up and tell him (video it of course :)) This will be his main birthday gift. If you see any deals please let me know!! Or Harry Potter down London.

    Thanks to Hidden last few days managed to hit £6.75 cash out for OP so hoping this will come through soon :D finally getting the vouchers back.

    At £1.15 in VO hopefully can get this to £3.50 today and next week cash out another £10 Boots voucher making it £50 for my mums Christmas out the way :D

    I am nearly finished christmas shopping so once done can save every penny :D

    6 days until payday xx
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