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Need to get myself together: The beginning
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I know, my heads mega messed up right now with it all.
To top off my crappy week my mum started on me again. Phoned last night to give her n my sister a lift this morning. All I said was could I drop her off at High Street (its one stop to Charing Cross! At her work) cos I hate HATE driving through town and she went off on one. I have had enough. I am now looking at places a bit away. Its not like his current school is great with everything hes been through so gonna try move next to my sister and hopefully she cd help me with school runs. If not will find every penny and get after school care. I cant do it anymore. Its too much!! All this you are nothing without us, things will change and I am a bad mum. I am done with them. With everything they done to me last year I cant take it anymore, was so happy in Florida and its cos they werent there!
I need to get away from them, for myself and my sons sake. My sisters turning 18!! shes not allowed train ride one stop !!!!!!! Sorry for my rant just mega worked up.
tomorrow is payday xxDebt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.800 -
Keep positive Monz,
You have got this.
October xx0 -
YOU ARE A FAB MUM!!!!!!!!
Your poor sister, my daughters 15 and she's been from kilmarnock to Glasgow on the train with her friends sounds like they want you all to rely on them........empty Nest syndrome perhaps?????NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.050 -
Your bl**dy mum sound like a nightmare!! It makes me mad Monz - you do such an amazing job for your boy!:j PAID VERY, Barclaycard x3, Vanquis, Natwest, O/D, Tesco & MBNA x2 PAID :j LBM 24/07/15 - Original Debt: £0/31010.23 (100% paid) :eek:
Mortgage - £151.316.54 :eek:0 -
I have a different word for them tbh in my head but dont want banned from the forum lol
They want my son. Not even kidding , when I dont agree or "live up to their expectations" they always try threaten my custody of him. It sbeyond a joke. we are moving away and if they try then take me to court and will never get to see him xxDebt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.800 -
Hugs Hun xx they wouldn't have a leg to stand on Hun, why on earth do they think they would get custody! XxDebt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid OffMortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
£79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off
Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20
Asda Savings - £0
POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80
~ Emergency Savings: £0
My Debt Free Diary (Link)0 -
they have money xxDebt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.800 -
Hugs hun, I deffo think you need to move away xxDebt £30,823.48/£44,856.56 ~ 06/02/21 - 31.28% Paid OffMortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
£79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off
Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20
Asda Savings - £0
POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80
~ Emergency Savings: £0
My Debt Free Diary (Link)0 -
Your parents sound a nightmare, definitely think it's a good idea to get some space from them.
Doesn't matter if they have money, they still wouldn't get custody of your wee boy. You are an amazing mum, don't let them tell you different.Mortgage 26.4.25 - £108,500 1.8.25 - £106,362.86
Mortgage overpayment savings - £3.33/£50
Mortgage overpayments so far - £675.980
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