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should employer identify colleague who reported me for looking tired

tir21
tir21 Posts: 1,054 Forumite
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I believe it was a malicious act to report me for looking tired

Is it fair to ask my employer to tell me who reported this to them?

Do you think they should tell me or keep this persond identity hidden

Thanks
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  • pinpin
    pinpin Posts: 527 Forumite
    looking tired? That's a new one. Is that a crime now?
  • gettingtheresometime
    gettingtheresometime Posts: 6,911 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours.
  • tir21
    tir21 Posts: 1,054 Forumite
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    "Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours"

    No
  • Justicia
    Justicia Posts: 1,437 Forumite
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    Same situ - still ongoing?

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4975474
    "Part P" is not, and has never been, an accredited electrical qualification. It is a Building Regulation. No one can be "Part P qualified."

    Forum posts are not legal advice; are for educational and discussion purposes only, and are not a substitute for proper consultation with a competent, qualified advisor.
  • Upsidedown_Bear
    Upsidedown_Bear Posts: 18,264 Forumite
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    edited 13 September 2014 at 6:34PM
    Is this a different "looking tired" than what happened in May?
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4975474

    ETA
    Snap Justicia :)
  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    No, they are not obliged to tell you. Why do you believe it was malicious?

    I agree with gettingtheresometime, the number of problems you have at work would indicate it is time for either a change of role or a change in attitude.
  • Gavin83
    Gavin83 Posts: 8,757 Forumite
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    I strongly believe that any reports against a fellow employee should be anonymous and therefore no I don't think you should have a right to know.

    Looking tired sounds like a stupid reason to report someone though, or were you actually asleep?
  • tir21
    tir21 Posts: 1,054 Forumite
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    Gavin83 wrote: »
    I strongly believe that any reports against a fellow employee should be anonymous and therefore no I don't think you should have a right to know.

    Why - if someone has been reported a few times for silly things and they suspect victimization, why shouldn't ones accusers be identified?

    The alternative is to leave an employee suspicious of all their coworkers
  • gettingtheresometime
    gettingtheresometime Posts: 6,911 Forumite
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    tir21 wrote: »
    "Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours"

    No

    What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain.”

    Wise words
  • tir21
    tir21 Posts: 1,054 Forumite
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    tomtontom wrote: »
    No, they are not obliged to tell you. Why do you believe it was malicious?

    Because in a job where many of us work 10 hours overnight then everyone looks tired at the end of a shift

    Why report me for looking tired and not anyone else?
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