should employer identify colleague who reported me for looking tired

tir21

I believe it was a malicious act to report me for looking tired

Is it fair to ask my employer to tell me who reported this to them?

Do you think they should tell me or keep this persond identity hidden

Thanks

pinpin

looking tired? That's a new one. Is that a crime now?

gettingtheresometime

Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours.

tir21

"Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours"

No

Justicia

Same situ - still ongoing?

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4975474

Upsidedown_Bear

Is this a different "looking tired" than what happened in May?
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4975474

ETA
Snap Justicia

tomtontom

No, they are not obliged to tell you. Why do you believe it was malicious?

I agree with gettingtheresometime, the number of problems you have at work would indicate it is time for either a change of role or a change in attitude.

Gavin83

I strongly believe that any reports against a fellow employee should be anonymous and therefore no I don't think you should have a right to know.

Looking tired sounds like a stupid reason to report someone though, or were you actually asleep?

tir21

Gavin83 wrote: »

I strongly believe that any reports against a fellow employee should be anonymous and therefore no I don't think you should have a right to know.

Why - if someone has been reported a few times for silly things and they suspect victimization, why shouldn't ones accusers be identified?

The alternative is to leave an employee suspicious of all their coworkers

gettingtheresometime

tir21 wrote: »

"Please get another job - if not for your sanity,then do it for ours"

No

What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain.”

Wise words

tir21

tomtontom wrote: »

No, they are not obliged to tell you. Why do you believe it was malicious?

Because in a job where many of us work 10 hours overnight then everyone looks tired at the end of a shift

Why report me for looking tired and not anyone else?