The Second Coming - CAFCGirls Debt Diary

Purpleroses

Hey caf! seems like ages since ive seen ya online. good news about the photography! sorry to hear about the bf. hope ur doing well! C x

CAFCGirl

Awww thanks hun....

I'm really excited about the photos now, think it could be the start of something...

As for the BF there are still some things that need to be said, but I think, long term, it's for the best.... Things have just run their course

CAFCGirl

Phew!

OK well.........
My photo has now been sent to print and we'll be having a convo about the exact money for it next week...

And...........
I've taken the plunge and decided to move back home, and commute to work. Saving me roughly 400-500 a month. Not to be sniffed at really!
Have already sounded my mum out about it, and she's cool, gone home to tell my Dad and then they can think where they can make room for me

My tenancy is now on a month on month term, so I only have to give 4 weeks notice, so I'm thinking 2 months before I'm back home. So I've got time to sort out my stuff, and make some room again at my parents place

The BF and I are now split up completely, and the conversation went perfectly, given what it was, but theres quite a lot of relief there now I think... time to start living me thinks!

postingalwaysposting

CAFCGirl wrote: »

Phew!

OK well.........
My photo has now been sent to print and we'll be having a convo about the exact money for it next week...

And...........
I've taken the plunge and decided to move back home, and commute to work. Saving me roughly 400-500 a month. Not to be sniffed at really!
Have already sounded my mum out about it, and she's cool, gone home to tell my Dad and then they can think where they can make room for me

My tenancy is now on a month on month term, so I only have to give 4 weeks notice, so I'm thinking 2 months before I'm back home. So I've got time to sort out my stuff, and make some room again at my parents place

The BF and I are now split up completely, and the conversation went perfectly, given what it was, but theres quite a lot of relief there now I think... time to start living me thinks!

cafc girl i dont really know how to answer this post but lets just say i am happy for you in all areas :j i believe all choices are good ones and maybe while you are at your parents you will be able to find something affordable/sharer... good luck with it all if you wanna chat/vent etc you know where i am take care

CAFCGirl

ohhhhhhhhh i dont really know how to take that.... lol was it a good or bad thing?

postingalwaysposting

CAFCGirl wrote: »

ohhhhhhhhh i dont really know how to take that.... lol was it a good or bad thing?

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

cafc girl i dont really know how to answer this post there is no answer hence its all good but lets just say i am happy for you in all areas after what you have been trough with you bf, and you know how i feel about him, its a good thing he isnt in your imediate future :j i believe all choices are good ones ie moving home and splitting up withb you bf and maybe while you are at your parents you will be able to find something affordable/sharer you were thinking or doing this anyways but being at home may make the decision more easier and deciding who to share with simpler... good luck with it all if you wanna chat/vent etc you know where i am whenever i have said that before take care

Has that made it clear ~ it was a positive post :rotfl:trying to say i think you have made the right choices and good luck with the cash you get from the photos and the website pics too

*pap goes and hides before she upsets anyone else*

CAFCGirl

oh god im sorry sorry hun!
I didnt meant o p*ss you off, I think I just read the

"I dont know how to answer this post"

And thought maybe you thought I'd made some wrong choices! Since it just said all choices are good choices, but that could mean all choices in the world ever!

As you can tell I haven't got my thread reading head on today, I blame Facebook!

But thanks hun, for the message (which Ive now read properly lol) and the support.... xx

postingalwaysposting

CAFCGirl wrote: »

oh god im sorry sorry hun!
I didnt meant o p*ss you off, I think I just read the

"I dont know how to answer this post"

And thought maybe you thought I'd made some wrong choices! Since it just said all choices are good choices, but that could mean all choices in the world ever!

As you can tell I haven't got my thread reading head on today, I blame Facebook!

But thanks hun, for the message (which Ive now read properly lol) and the support.... xx

nah i am not angry/**** off ~ maybe its just me maybe i am just a bad communicator...i typed 'I dont know how to answer this post' because i never know how to answer any diary post :rolleyes: i feel i shouldnt be typing on a diary, my advice is flawed/rubbish and i am just taking up space. Its nothing to do with your post i just didnt know what to write without upsetting you or making me sound stupid ~ both of which i succeded in doing anyway :wall: i never answer posts usually (i just leave a thanks here and there) but because you have helped me so much i thought i had better post something :rolleyes: never mind, speak soon hun

CAFCGirl

Oh hunny please dont feel like that, I never meant to make you feel like that.

I should have taken the time to read your post more carefully, Im so sorry...
And I loe all your posts, your contributions are so appreciated!

And you are not just taking up space, youre a friend, and I welcome anything youve got to say about any of it, good or bad, or just anything!

I'm so sorry hun for my haste, and for the crossed wires!

postingalwaysposting

CAFCGirl wrote: »

Oh hunny please dont feel like that, I never meant to make you feel like that.

I should have taken the time to read your post more carefully, Im so sorry...
And I loe all your posts, your contributions are so appreciated!

And you are not just taking up space, youre a friend, and I welcome anything youve got to say about any of it, good or bad, or just anything!

I'm so sorry hun for my haste, and for the crossed wires!

its nothing to do with you its me... you didnt make me feel like anything, i knew what i typed first time around was a huge pickle and i would have asked a simmler thing if it was my diary... take care hunni :grinheart