📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Wireless Monitor For When Baby Falls Asleep In Car?

Options
17810121335

Comments

  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    , it's highly irresponsible.

    Based on the latest research, so are:

    Putting a baby to sleep in a room different to you before six months
    Having a baby nap in a different room to you before six months
    Introducing solids before six months
    Introducing cows' milk before 12 months
    Having a baby or young child in a front-facing car seat

    And yet I am willing to bet most of you judging me (and the OP) have done at least one of these things.

    In fact, the dangers of those things are more tangible and more likely than the danger I am being accused of. How's your ivory tower?
    :cool: DFW Nerd Club member 023...DFD 9.2.2007 :cool:
    :heartpuls married 21 6 08 :A Angel babies' birth dates 3.10.08 * 4.3.11 * 11.11.11 * 17.3.12 * 2.7.12 :heart2: My live baby's birth date 22 7 09 :heart2: I'm due another baby at the end of July 2014! :j
  • GwylimT
    GwylimT Posts: 6,530 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    skintchick wrote: »
    Based on the latest research, so are:

    Putting a baby to sleep in a room different to you before six months
    Having a baby nap in a different room to you before six months
    Introducing solids before six months
    Introducing cows' milk before 12 months
    Having a baby or young child in a front-facing car seat

    And yet I am willing to bet most of you judging me (and the OP) have done at least one of these things.

    In fact, the dangers of those things are more tangible and more likely than the danger I am being accused of. How's your ivory tower?

    I haven't done any of those things, neither has my wife.
  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    OP would you leave a dog in a hot car?
  • moomoomama27
    moomoomama27 Posts: 3,823 Forumite
    skintchick wrote: »
    Based on the latest research, so are:

    Putting a baby to sleep in a room different to you before six months
    Having a baby nap in a different room to you before six months
    Introducing solids before six months
    Introducing cows' milk before 12 months
    Having a baby or young child in a front-facing car seat

    And yet I am willing to bet most of you judging me (and the OP) have done at least one of these things.

    In fact, the dangers of those things are more tangible and more likely than the danger I am being accused of. How's your ivory tower?

    I'm judging, yes. I work in child protection, so cannot fathom people knowingly putting their children at risk.

    I have 3 children. I had them:
    Sleep in same room, shortest time 18 months
    All solids started well after 6 months
    Same with cows milk, well after 12 months
    All mine were rear facing until well over a year old.

    I'm sure many others have followed the guidelines too. So I dont get your point?
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    The point is a vast majority of people do at least one of those things. I'm glad things are changing and people are actually following the research, but many many people don't and I'm willing to bet that a lot of people who have posted on this thread have done at least one of those things. And you knew that, because you're not stupid.
    :cool: DFW Nerd Club member 023...DFD 9.2.2007 :cool:
    :heartpuls married 21 6 08 :A Angel babies' birth dates 3.10.08 * 4.3.11 * 11.11.11 * 17.3.12 * 2.7.12 :heart2: My live baby's birth date 22 7 09 :heart2: I'm due another baby at the end of July 2014! :j
  • hawk30
    hawk30 Posts: 416 Forumite
    skintchick wrote: »
    Based on the latest research, so are:

    Putting a baby to sleep in a room different to you before six months
    Having a baby nap in a different room to you before six months
    Introducing solids before six months
    Introducing cows' milk before 12 months
    Having a baby or young child in a front-facing car seat

    And yet I am willing to bet most of you judging me (and the OP) have done at least one of these things.

    In fact, the dangers of those things are more tangible and more likely than the danger I am being accused of. How's your ivory tower?

    All's fine up here, because I haven't done any of these things.

    I have no problem with being accused of judging people. I AM judging people and I don't care.
  • penguin83
    penguin83 Posts: 4,817 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Is it really that much of a problem if baby wakes up? If any of my three wake up when transferring from car to house then so be it. I am shocked how many people do it and I am by no means a hysterical parent!
    Pay Debt by Xmas 16 - 0/12000
    There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Is it really that much of a problem if baby wakes up?

    It certainly seems to be for some mothers, babies are such an inconvenience.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • gingin_2
    gingin_2 Posts: 2,992 Forumite
    penguin83 wrote: »
    Is it really that much of a problem if baby wakes up? If any of my three wake up when transferring from car to house then so be it. I am shocked how many people do it and I am by no means a hysterical parent!


    It's almost like a game of Operation isn't it? Steady hand and smooth moves and if you're lucky you can get them inside asleep, if not it's try again next time! It was always my luck that they woke up when their heads reached their cosy cot but it's never, ever occurred to me to leave them inside the car, not to sleep, not when paying for petrol. Never.
  • skintchick wrote: »
    Based on the latest research, so are:

    Putting a baby to sleep in a room different to you before six months
    Having a baby nap in a different room to you before six months
    Introducing solids before six months
    Introducing cows' milk before 12 months
    Having a baby or young child in a front-facing car seat

    And yet I am willing to bet most of you judging me (and the OP) have done at least one of these things.

    In fact, the dangers of those things are more tangible and more likely than the danger I am being accused of. How's your ivory tower?


    Well that's a bet you would have lost because I didn't do any of the things on your list. I don't claim to be or think I am a perfect parent. But I do take REASONABLE steps to ensure my child's safety.


    I think the most shocking part of the OP was that they were looking a baby monitor to hear if their child cried. To me this seems like they weren't planning on watching the car while their child was alone. Otherwise they would SEE if they woke up.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177K Life & Family
  • 257.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.