Strange undies found!

lulu_92

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Hell no, too much entertainment on this thread!

Been reading it all day and I think everything I could say has been said already.

If I'm honest, I think they're yours. Happened to me the other day I found a pair of black knickers on my spare bed. I put my clean washing on that bed as my chest of drawers and clothes rail is in there (too many clothes, house too small )

I was adamant they weren't mine. OH was certain they were mine as I have six pairs the same colour and style. Turns out they were mine and I couldn't remember what style they were as I don't wear them often!

It does happen on the other hand though. I've been to a guy's house and left stuff there by accident. Actually left a pair of knickers at my exes house once. That annoyed me as they were my favourite pair!

Saying this though, I would suggest that you are looking for reasons to accuse him of cheating, maybe you have an inkling because of other things that have happened previously?



And I'll put my two cents in, I will cut the labels out of my undies if it's at the back. No idea why a pair of pants needs a massive label!

(And before anyone says, NO it is not my pants at her house mine were red lace)

SailorSam

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PANTS !!!
The thread will be locked when people stop giving their thoughts.

RuthnJasper

Blimey! 244 (245 now ) posts in just a day and a half... all about some knicks! Is this a good thing or not?! (probably not).

Gloomendoom

Speaking of strange undies...



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Kayalana99

Well all I can add is if I had found a pair of knickers in the bed that weren't mine on a night I had been 'away'...he would be out on the door step.

I mean really...what more prove would you need.

The only question that needs answering is ARE they yours....

aggypanthus

Yrs ago when I lived with an idiot bf, I found a panti girdle in his fishing basket, I didnt know whether to laugh or get worried.:rotfl:
I turned out that he was up to no good with a lady twice his age.

no one wears them nowadays!:Do

Kynthia

Kayalana99 wrote: »

Well all I can add is if I had found a pair of knickers in the bed that weren't mine on a night I had been 'away'...he would be out on the door step.

I mean really...what more prove would you need.

The only question that needs answering is ARE they yours....

I would think there was a strange explanation and that even if I couldn't think of it doesn't mean there wasn't one. Maybe I'd misplaced them when they were new which was why I didn't recognise them, maybe a friend who'd stayed over in the past had misplaced them and they'd got tangled up in the bedding, maybe they were mistakenly sent in an ebay bundle of clothes I'd bought, etc. It's all about trust and I trust my hubbie. If there were other things that had made me doubt my hubbie then that would be different, but that alone wouldn't do it.

FBaby

Statistics on this doesn't add up. On one hand, people posting almost daily one place or another about how they've been cheated on (or in some cases, done the cheating), yet as soon as someone post asking whether this could possibly be happening to them, there's an overwhelming number of responses accusing the poster of having an issue with trusting if they are considering as a possibility!

Surely it is a possibility for anyone of us, it's just that it seemed impossible before it happens, seemed obvious after it does! Accepting that noone is immune from it happening to them one day is not having trusting issues, it means being realistic. It doesn't mean it has to take over your life but nothing wrong with being vigilent.

Morglin

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I agree. Most people in a relationship wouldnt monitor their partners coffee and nicotine intake on a daily basis, not monitor their emails and where they check them - i dont think this is the average relationship...

I don't monitor anything - my husband is a grown up, and entitled to his own choices and privacy.

And, I wouldn't put up with bring checked or monitored either.

It doesn't work anyway, as if someone wants to cheat, they will find a way.

Lin

FBaby

Most people in a relationship wouldnt monitor their partners coffee and nicotine intake on a daily basis, not monitor their emails and where they check them - i dont think this is the average relationship...

You don't need to monitor! If my husband does something every single day, but one day didn't, I think I would notice (because I actually bother to pay attention). Of course that doesn't mean that I would assume he was up to no good. My OH is not a person who opens up if he has a problem. It has taken me 5 years to 'read' the signs properly and more importantly to deal with the situation so that he will eventually open up to me.

A change of habits could very much mean that something is on his mind but he is choosing not to share it so not to put any stress on me. I think if couples sometimes bothered to pay a bit more attention to their partner, they might not end up here going on about having been dumped because their partner felt taken for granted.