How to get over loneliness and lack of social life?

dandelionclock30

Top tip, most new friends will not be interested in listening to your worries. So forget about that one for a start.
In my experience when you getting to know someone things start off quite light for a good while. Its rare that friends are really truely supportive anyway in my experience although others may say differently.

kingslayer

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

Top tip, most new friends will not be interested in listening to your worries. So forget about that one for a start.
In my experience when you getting to know someone things start off quite light for a good while. Its rare that friends are really truely supportive anyway in my experience although others may say differently.

Yeah, i understand that it's hard to trust anybody these days 100%, be it friends or family. I'm not looking for someone to spill my heart and worries out too, just people to socialise with and experience different things with. My social life is just stagnating right now, and i haven't made hardly any new friends since college, which i finished 5 years ago.

kingslayer

purpleshoes wrote: »

You want to date older women, but you cant socialise with people in that age group?

Meet up is full of different groups. There are groups specifically for 20 and 30 somethings, other groups for 40s and over and some groups will have people in them from 20-60 and beyond

The only way you'll know is if you get off your backside, join a few and get out there and meet people.

Or just carry on the way you are, your call.

Well granted, i haven't really socialised with older people before.

I will try give it a go.

Thanks.

Pennyyes

kingslayer wrote: »

Well granted, i haven't really socialised with older people before.

I will try give it a go.

Thanks.

This is that Phil man... The writing style is similar....

jaylee3

Hmmm yes, bit suspicious about a few on this thread.

Rachel83

A few things I spotted in writing styles that compare as well... What a poor individual!

jaylee3

Yep, same age and all. Mid 20s, fantasises about older women. Stories about struggles with people: family get togethers and suchlike. I think that it's all the same person. He has a split personality. The 'poor me, feel sorry for me, no-one likes me' side, and the abusive, mocking 'I'm so superior' side.

But I think it's all the same person.

Rachel83

I just figured both characters have quirks in their styles of writing, once you notice then it sticks out