Just needed to be heard for a little while

Pyxis

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Had a snotty letter from previous work today. Apparently I owe them 459 as I was overpaid right need to word a letter saying they can hack it back at 20 a month.

But aren't you paid in arrears? How can you owe them that much?

elsien

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Had a snotty letter from previous work today. Apparently I owe them 459 as I was overpaid right need to word a letter saying they can hack it back at 20 a month.

Have they given you a full breakdown of how they they've worked it out? I wouldn't be offering them anything till I'd checked they'd done their maths properly.

mellymoo74

Two weeks arrears and two weeks in front the letter states they would have given me compassionate Leave etc I don't know how long I will need really upset.

mellymoo74

It's because my phone was off blumin talktalk

mellymoo74

We are disappointed you didn't discuss the situation with your manager or HR. Er I did repeatedly that's set me back a bit

Waves_and_Smiles

Do check it is what you owe melly, just in case. Don't be upset, you did the right thing for you and your family.

Good morning all! I had salad! I managed green things! Tonight WaSp and I are making vegetable sushi for the first time with the wonderful kit someone here sent me (thank you wonderful person). We have never tried it before but as I love it so much I figured vegetable sushi could be another way of getting me back to being able to face veggies. Right now I am still living off of Berocca for vitamins which I shouldn't do because of the sweeteners but my diet has nothing but carbs and proteins in it! Fruit seems to cause the same problems because I drank so much fruit juice when I was ill.

I absolutely love tomatoes and am desperate for them but everytime I see them on a plate all I can think is that tomato soup was the last thing I threw up and can't touch them. This is now really annoying. I know I have Phobic Aversion Disorder but over vegetables and fruit? Really?

mellymoo74

Well done on the green things consumption WaS.

Thanks for your comments I know it was the right decision and they are just hacked off that I left still not nice.

Try growing some of the coloured tomatoes that might help.

Pyxis

Also, was the soup Cream of Tomato? If so, it is probably the dairy part that makes you queasy.
If so, try a little tomato ketchup on something .
Or, grill half a tomato to within an inch of its life, so that you get it caramelised, a shake of pepper, and try that!



Mellymoo, how long did you actually work there for?

Waves_and_Smiles

It was cream of tomato, that is a good point about the dairy. I tried cheese yesterday that normally I could eat by the bucket load but found one piece very rich and had to leave it. My digestion/taste still isn't entirely back to normal. I shall try grilled tomatoes and tiny little bits of raw veggies in my sushi tonight. This may actually be normal after the flu, I have no idea because I have never had it before!

On a sort of bright side my consultants are wrong, I can lose weight because I have. The solution is 3 weeks of diawoowoo which is still going.

lostinrates

I was incredibly ill this morning. Quite funny as I was so buoyant about how well I was doing, lol. But feel ok now. But...

Dog dog is NOT well. I'm taking her to the vet. I'm really worried tbh.