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DMP & Mutual Support Thread - Part 10

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  • Happy Christmas everyone :xmassign:

    Well part 1 of my job plan is in place and I have been paid my undue but gratefully received redundancy. So my Christmas present to myself was to pay off my penultimate debt and get down to just Lloyds TSB and we are now over 90% paid off :j

    We also have the car back and running :D

    I can't wait to be debt free but will never lose the life lessons I have learned over the last 34 months. It's still so good to look at everything we have for Christmas and know it was budgeted for and is all paid in full. This time 3 years ago, I had sold my dead mum's jewellery to pay for Christmas and was still absolutely dreading the January credit card bills which I knew we simply could not pay. I hadn't even heard of a DMP and really thought there was no way out of the mess we found ourselves in, the debt would follow us into retirement and death. Via google and links, I found this forum and the predecessor to this thread and the rest, as they say, is history!

    So it's Christmas Eve, which means there are 7 days debt busting left this year and then a whole new year ahead of us. My second favourite thread on this forum is Payment a Day aka PAD:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4936815

    From the day I was introduced to it, 2 and a half years ago, I have made a payment literally every single day. It doesn't matter if it's to a debt or to emergency savings; it doesn't matter if it's pennies or a thousand pounds; it doesn't matter if you miss a day or a week or months. Like this thread, it is non-judgemental and supportive, I really can't recommend it highly enough.

    OK that's TTFTM's tip for the year and almost enough ramble from me :rotfl:

    I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas, but if yours is like mine was 3 years ago, or you are just starting out on the DMP journey and things look a bit bleak at the moment, there will be people here and on the main DFW forum here to advise, help, offer experience and above all support you. That's what this is all about.
    DMP & Mutual Support Thread :iloveyou:

    TTFTM x
    LBM 10/1/12 ~ DFW Start 6/2/12: £82,344 ~ Now Zero
    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
    Eternal thanks to the DMP & Mutual Support (no.439) and Payment a Day Threads
    Mortgage free 3rd July 2014 - Grateful thanks to the 2013/14 MFW threads
    "Debt is normal. Be weird!" Dave Ramsey
    Proud to have dealt with our debt :)
  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    smiley3143.gifMerry Christmas to all.......................




    This is my second christmas on a dmp and I would like to echo all that was said by the amazing TTFTM. I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and have a fantastic debt busting year in 2015..




    smiley1839.gif


    Love Puzz. xxx
    Christmas 2020 £109
    I love my dmp started in Nov 13 with SC. Self Managed 2016 57% done
    £60062/25384.84 - 13222.60k UE

    MY DIARY
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=4768685
  • Happy Christmas everyone :xmassign:

    Well part 1 of my job plan is in place and I have been paid my undue but gratefully received redundancy. So my Christmas present to myself was to pay off my penultimate debt and get down to just Lloyds TSB and we are now over 90% paid off :j

    We also have the car back and running :D

    I can't wait to be debt free but will never lose the life lessons I have learned over the last 34 months. It's still so good to look at everything we have for Christmas and know it was budgeted for and is all paid in full. This time 3 years ago, I had sold my dead mum's jewellery to pay for Christmas and was still absolutely dreading the January credit card bills which I knew we simply could not pay. I hadn't even heard of a DMP and really thought there was no way out of the mess we found ourselves in, the debt would follow us into retirement and death. Via google and links, I found this forum and the predecessor to this thread and the rest, as they say, is history!

    So it's Christmas Eve, which means there are 7 days debt busting left this year and then a whole new year ahead of us. My second favourite thread on this forum is Payment a Day aka PAD:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4936815

    From the day I was introduced to it, 2 and a half years ago, I have made a payment literally every single day. It doesn't matter if it's to a debt or to emergency savings; it doesn't matter if it's pennies or a thousand pounds; it doesn't matter if you miss a day or a week or months. Like this thread, it is non-judgemental and supportive, I really can't recommend it highly enough.

    OK that's TTFTM's tip for the year and almost enough ramble from me :rotfl:

    I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas, but if yours is like mine was 3 years ago, or you are just starting out on the DMP journey and things look a bit bleak at the moment, there will be people here and on the main DFW forum here to advise, help, offer experience and above all support you. That's what this is all about.
    DMP & Mutual Support Thread :iloveyou:

    TTFTM x


    Well said TTFTM!! :T

    Merry Christmas to you all! :xmassign:
  • ailz95
    ailz95 Posts: 380 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Photogenic Debt-free and Proud!
    Merry Christmas to one and all.

    This will be my first Christmas without any debt since I was 18 - 42 years ago. But I can say that it won't be my last.

    It's our family Christmas dinner today, the turkey is in the oven - can't do anything else until Waitrose deliver it. Tomorrow, I think, it's sausages :rotfl:

    Peace and Goodwill to all :xmastree:

    Ailz
    Clutter free wannabee 2021 /52 bags to cs. /2021 'stuff' out of the place

    YOU CANNOT BE ALL THE GOOD THAT THE WORLD NEEDS, BUT THE WORLD NEEDS ALL THE GOOD YOU CAN BE
    taken from Shelbizleee on YouTube - her copyright
  • Happy Christmas everyone :xmassign:

    Well part 1 of my job plan is in place and I have been paid my undue but gratefully received redundancy. So my Christmas present to myself was to pay off my penultimate debt and get down to just Lloyds TSB and we are now over 90% paid off :j

    We also have the car back and running :D

    I can't wait to be debt free but will never lose the life lessons I have learned over the last 34 months. It's still so good to look at everything we have for Christmas and know it was budgeted for and is all paid in full. This time 3 years ago, I had sold my dead mum's jewellery to pay for Christmas and was still absolutely dreading the January credit card bills which I knew we simply could not pay. I hadn't even heard of a DMP and really thought there was no way out of the mess we found ourselves in, the debt would follow us into retirement and death. Via google and links, I found this forum and the predecessor to this thread and the rest, as they say, is history!

    So it's Christmas Eve, which means there are 7 days debt busting left this year and then a whole new year ahead of us. My second favourite thread on this forum is Payment a Day aka PAD:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4936815

    From the day I was introduced to it, 2 and a half years ago, I have made a payment literally every single day. It doesn't matter if it's to a debt or to emergency savings; it doesn't matter if it's pennies or a thousand pounds; it doesn't matter if you miss a day or a week or months. Like this thread, it is non-judgemental and supportive, I really can't recommend it highly enough.

    OK that's TTFTM's tip for the year and almost enough ramble from me :rotfl:

    I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas, but if yours is like mine was 3 years ago, or you are just starting out on the DMP journey and things look a bit bleak at the moment, there will be people here and on the main DFW forum here to advise, help, offer experience and above all support you. That's what this is all about.
    DMP & Mutual Support Thread :iloveyou:

    TTFTM x


    Wowee - over 90% twin. Grinning away here :)

    HHx
  • Well done TTFTM your journey as always is inspiring.

    Wishing all DMP'rs all the best for the festive break and thanks for the support this year. Your all just Fab !
    LBM Sept 2012
    started DMP 1.11.12
    Debt [STRIKE]£37012[/STRIKE]/£0 DFD January 2019 :beer:
  • joee
    joee Posts: 173 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    A bit of a lurker here but I wanted to say


    MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!


    I have paid almost 90% of my debts and I truly believe it is partly down to the care and support that has been my honour to read in this thread.


    Thank you all! :)


    xx
    :jProud to have dealt with my debt, DFD 6th May 2015 :j
    Part of the SPC challenge - #168 joee - My lovely gold stars from Sue-UU :staradmin x6 - BANKED £9.07
    2015: Sell £1000 #65 - target £500 - Sold £108.69
  • Merry-Christmas-Xmas-Picture-300x195.jpg
    Festive Sig Update.

    Happy Christmas Fellow DMPers

    :xmassign: :snow_laug :xmastree: :snow_laug :rudolf:
  • Sazzie23
    Sazzie23 Posts: 2,634 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Post of the Month
    ailz95 wrote: »
    Merry Christmas to one and all.

    This will be my first Christmas without any debt since I was 18 - 42 years ago. But I can say that it won't be my last.

    It's our family Christmas dinner today, the turkey is in the oven - can't do anything else until Waitrose deliver it. Tomorrow, I think, it's sausages :rotfl:

    Peace and Goodwill to all :xmastree:

    Ailz


    Congratulations on your DFD - what a good feeling it must be, hope Waitrose turned up with the rest :T Enjoy your sausages:D

    Happy Christmas everyone :xmassign:

    Well part 1 of my job plan is in place and I have been paid my undue but gratefully received redundancy. So my Christmas present to myself was to pay off my penultimate debt and get down to just Lloyds TSB and we are now over 90% paid off :j

    We also have the car back and running :D

    I can't wait to be debt free but will never lose the life lessons I have learned over the last 34 months. It's still so good to look at everything we have for Christmas and know it was budgeted for and is all paid in full. This time 3 years ago, I had sold my dead mum's jewellery to pay for Christmas and was still absolutely dreading the January credit card bills which I knew we simply could not pay. I hadn't even heard of a DMP and really thought there was no way out of the mess we found ourselves in, the debt would follow us into retirement and death. Via google and links, I found this forum and the predecessor to this thread and the rest, as they say, is history!

    So it's Christmas Eve, which means there are 7 days debt busting left this year and then a whole new year ahead of us. My second favourite thread on this forum is Payment a Day aka PAD:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4936815

    From the day I was introduced to it, 2 and a half years ago, I have made a payment literally every single day. It doesn't matter if it's to a debt or to emergency savings; it doesn't matter if it's pennies or a thousand pounds; it doesn't matter if you miss a day or a week or months. Like this thread, it is non-judgemental and supportive, I really can't recommend it highly enough.

    OK that's TTFTM's tip for the year and almost enough ramble from me :rotfl:

    I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas, but if yours is like mine was 3 years ago, or you are just starting out on the DMP journey and things look a bit bleak at the moment, there will be people here and on the main DFW forum here to advise, help, offer experience and above all support you. That's what this is all about.
    DMP & Mutual Support Thread :iloveyou:

    TTFTM x

    TTFTM you are always informative and inspirational, your positivity in the face of setbacks such as redundancy is amazing, I wish you a wonderful Christmas and I'm such that last 10% will vanish in no time at all.

    i recognise myself in some of your experiences, and I'm sure many others do too.

    My Christmas wish to you all (including you lurkers:T) is that you find the help you need to make you life better than just bearable and you can find the way to a life free of debtdom chains.
    :beer:
    Debt -it's a fight that I'm winning, dealing with debt one day at a time.
    Estimated DFD August 2018 - 2031 - now 2027 :T

    Guide dog Tess, missing Scotland 2 years

    DMP support no438.
  • MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYBODY!!

    I hope you're all having a wonderful day filled with food and laughter!

    I didn't get the job unfortunately, but I was up against my old manager ha! Apparently I made it such a hard decision that they had to base it purely on amount of experience, thus she got it. I was very disappointed but it's given me more confidence and they said if another job was to come up they would want to speak to me about it.

    In DMP news, I've had a text message off BC saying my account is on hold pending further information from SC, and the same in letter format from MBNA. Just waiting on Halidax now.

    I paid my car insurance up front for next year, which is going to save me £65 a month which will be getting saved. Also, I've just done a budget check (very Christmassy, I know!), and after all my bills and my first SC payment has gone out, I will still have around £200 leftover!! Along with the fact christmas was all paid for with cash and not credit, this is unheard of!!! I'm thinking an on,ine sales shop to try and get some bargains for birthdays/ next Christmas, and then I'll save the rest in my new emergency pot.

    I'm sitting on the sofa now under a fleecy blanket with the Christmas lights on waiting for my man to come in from a 12 hour shift so we can exchange our gifts, and I have to say I'm feeling rather pleased with myself :)
    LBM 14th November 2014 - Total debt £8,852.54
    Step Change DMP started 01 January 2015.
    DFD June 2020
    MBNA: interest frozen - Halifax CC: interest frozen - Halifax Loan: interest frozen
    Halifax O/D: interest frozen - Barclaycard: [?]

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