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Football 'trespass' clarification

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  • catzooo
    catzooo Posts: 169 Forumite
    I second letting the dog out. Soft ball. Sharp teeth.
  • jimbog
    jimbog Posts: 2,291 Forumite
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    put it to her that all requests will need to be in writing in future
    Gather ye rosebuds while ye may
  • System
    System Posts: 178,390 Community Admin
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    So everyone should allow all the neighbours' kids unlimited access to their gardens because the parents are convinced the local parks are full of raging nonces?

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    The number of children murdered has not changed much since the Moor Murders. It['s the various multi media sources that means the murder is more prevalent in society.
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  • Ulfar
    Ulfar Posts: 1,309 Forumite
    edited 5 June 2014 at 4:02PM
    A bit confused, how are they kicking the ball against your house.

    Is it because your house is right next to a path way. If so it is similar to mine, I have no problem facing up to any of the parents when kids think it is a good idea to kick balls against my wall.

    You either need to face up to this neighbor or if she is anti social get the police involved.

    Is there any garden space by the side of your house they are kicking it against, if there is either some prickly bushes or a fencemay be the way to go. If you are going the fence route I would go with chain link as the ball won't bounce of it.
  • Running_Horse
    Running_Horse Posts: 11,809 Forumite
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    I pinhole should see the ball gradually become useless.
    Been away for a while.
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Ulfar wrote: »
    A bit confused, how are they kicking the ball against your house.

    Is it because your house is right next to a path way. If so it is similar to mine, I have no problem facing up to any of the parents when kids think it is a good idea to kick balls against my wall.

    You either need to face up to this neighbor or if she is anti social get the police involved.

    Is there any garden space by the side of your house they are kicking it against, if there is either some prickly bushes or a fencemay be the way to go. If you are going the fence route I would go with chain link as the ball won't bounce of it.
    Yes it's end terrace with a path and the main estate road which they play on next to it.

    We've faced up to her more times than I can count and been utterly ignored.
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    Ongoing problem with our neighbours to the rear. In the end they called the police as we refused to return the balls (after 4 years). Due to the damage that was being caused to our plants from the balls and their unauthorised access to our garden, i.e. trampling across flower beds.

    I happen to find out that the neighbour is a police dog handler. So after chatting to 2 really nice community police officers for about 15 minutes. I let this fact slip. Their faces were aghast. Needless to say we've had a quiet 4 weeks now........
  • jjlandlord
    jjlandlord Posts: 5,099 Forumite
    Thrugelmir wrote: »
    In the end they called the police as we refused to return the balls (after 4 years).

    Well they had a case if you did refuse to return the balls.
  • Cissi
    Cissi Posts: 1,131 Forumite
    Thrugelmir wrote: »
    Ongoing problem with our neighbours to the rear. In the end they called the police as we refused to return the balls (after 4 years). Due to the damage that was being caused to our plants from the balls and their unauthorised access to our garden, i.e. trampling across flower beds.

    I happen to find out that the neighbour is a police dog handler. So after chatting to 2 really nice community police officers for about 15 minutes. I let this fact slip. Their faces were aghast. Needless to say we've had a quiet 4 weeks now........

    Very confused what the neighbour being a police dog handler had anything to do with it or how it helped but glad your problems stopped!

    As for the OP, it looks like she has an unfortunate tendency to attract fruitcakes... This is the 3rd thread I've come across in the last couple of days where other people are being completely unreasonable: her own neighbours, her parents' neighbours, her relatives... If all these stories are true then I do feel very sorry for her!

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4986018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4985961
  • lee111s
    lee111s Posts: 2,987 Forumite
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    Stick some trellis made from carpet grippers on said wall :)
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