accused wrongly by social services

BigAunty

scousedave wrote: »

But children have equal right to live with which ever parent.
Will bevin africa 9 months per year and the uk only 3 for work.
That was the intention all along.

Why Africa? In one of your first posts, you mentioned your wife is Philippino?

Did you ever get your plastering and tiling business off the ground or are you still unemployed?

How do you plan to support your family with just 3 months work per year?

Your historic posts indicate at least 9 months on JSA with the previous year seeing you earn not much more than the National Minimum Wage and more recently you were contemplating applying for a sickness benefit. You appear to have heavy dependence on child tax credits and previously expresssed a need to claim support for mortgage interest on your 90k mortgage?

Tax credits, child benefit, SMI, JSA/ESA will probably all have UK residency as a dependency and only permit shortish spells outside the country.

Then again, one of your 'friends' has 200k in savings - have you thought about getting a loan from them or asking them to fund your new business....?

FBaby

Yes, I did notice that the rich 'friend' had incredibly a lot in common with OP's situation...

peachyprice

SS could, in theory, stop you taking the children out of the country by putting a restriction on their passports which would flag up if you tried to take them out of the country. But to do that they would have to go to court and would need evidence against you, not just suspicions.

The easiest thing would be for their mother to come back to the UK and take them back with her and for you to follow. If she is not under investigation there will be no restrictions on her taking the children out of the country and there won't be any restrictions on you leaving the country alone unless the allegations against you were very serious.

yvonne13_2

scousedave wrote: »

It is something not too serious, not abuse or anything like that. They have accused me of having a bad relationship with my children.
This is so far from the truth. I spend at least 5 hours a week with them doing homework, do 8 clubs a week, ensure they have a good diet etc.
They have got things totally wrong but dont think it is beneficial to wait for them to move as it is in our best interests to make the move we had already planned. .

OP you posted on one of your ealier threads that your 9 year old son has been on Google looking at "naked ladies" ect perhaps that has something to do with SS investigating you.

gizmo111

peachyprice wrote: »

SS could, in theory, stop you taking the children out of the country by putting a restriction on their passports which would flag up if you tried to take them out of the country. But to do that they would have to go to court and would need evidence against you, not just suspicions.

The easiest thing would be for their mother to come back to the UK and take them back with her and for you to follow. If she is not under investigation there will be no restrictions on her taking the children out of the country and there won't be any restrictions on you leaving the country alone unless the allegations against you were very serious.

And if they had enough evidence that they meet the threshold of significant harm they would go to court to get an order to remove the children from his care.