partners erection problem

Tom_Saunders

ilace wrote: »

i do hope its not bordom allready he wants to sleep with me a lot so i guess thats a good sign or he wouldnt bother?
anyway good tips to hurry things up befor he loses his erection?? id rather have shorter time but fully hard ,than longer time and soft.. thanks for all the replys guys ilace x

Buy some viagra, that's what its' there for.

sometimes my misses prefers it when I'm soft, I think that's rather weird but I suppose we are all different.

cells

Age might be a factor here, so unless your BF is 60 id say it’s a medical thing.

The only other thing I can think of is that he ejaculates but is able to continue soft rather than hard. But that would mean he is hard then goes soft. If soft all the way then its probably a medical thing.

Just to note, it is definitely not you!

TheWaltons_3

Are you sure he isn't ejaculating already?

This has happened to me and hubby and he's carried on thrusting away with a soft willy (yeah, like I hadn't noticed) and when I've complained about it - he's said he had come but didn't want to admit it because he wanted me to come too! (Erm... BIG difference between a soft/hard penis). We laugh about it and I'll slap him joking around, especially if I were just get into the swing of things

Malky

Maybe he has something to feel guilty about?

Errata

Some prescribed medications can give guys problems like this, especially anti depressants.

ilace

no hes not over 60 or on any medication that i know of..
we do have plenty of foreplay allready.and im pretty sure that he hasent ejaculating befor he goes soft. i really think i should talk to him but im a tad worryed he'l say he hasent had a problem befor me.plus i dont really know what to say to be truthfull?
strange that cause ive posted it to you guys on here and it dosent worry me,but hay maybe thats cause i dont have to see any of you.
thanks for all your replys. my thanks button isent working..
ilace x

Rikki

Mens minds and the parts are closely linked. It can become a vicious circle. The more he worries about it the worse it can become.

Be patient with him, men can be very sensitive about this kind of problem.

Errata

Why not get straight to the point and ask him if it's happened before?

Rikki

Errata wrote: »

Why not get straight to the point and ask him if it's happened before?

Nothing like diplomacy. :eek:

Milky_Mocha

Any idea who any of his ex-girlfriends are? You could have coffee with one of them and ask if its happened with them. Crafty but hey.