talk me down please

mellymoo74

Bloods done
3 lots
Checking for everything
Tumour markers
Cell count
Thyroid
Hormone levels
And some other stuff I didn't even hear

mellymoo74

My friend has just been incredibly mean

Apparently I need to not work at the moment cos I hate everybody. Also had the go to all the appointments chat.

I'm gonna pop up to see her and the kids tomorrow always perks me up.

I don't think it's bad, I think it's a cyst or fibroid making my hormones go silly and pressing on the bowel and I will be absolutely fine.

thorsoak

If your friend is telling you that you HAVE to attend all the appointments made for you by the doctors, then she is not being mean, Melly - she is being a true friend to you. Believe me, if you didn't need these appointments, they would not be given - especially appointments within a couple of weeks! And she is also not being mean in telling you that your health has to come before work. If you aren't 100% (or even 50%) fit, then you cannot give the 100% to any job.

Go and see your friend, listen to what she says - and although I applaud your optimism, DO NOT IGNORE THE SYMPTOMS - and stop self-diagnosing yourself xxx

calleyw

Mel, do we have to have words?


You know she is talking sense but you are so tired and worn out and worried by other things and people you are deflecting.


It makes things easier to cope with. And you know I would say the same thing. You need to start putting your health and needs first.


Yours


Calley x

mellymoo74

No Cal it was the hating people comment I was mainly whining about.
This is the friend who went in for surgery and helped me move with a broken gallbladder so er she can talk lol

I am being good
I technically have an interview tomorrow so maybe not that good

mellymoo74

https://youtu.be/9kmeUROP1Oc

Mayb I should go into animal training?

calleyw

mellymoo74 wrote: »

https://youtu.be/9kmeUROP1Oc

Mayb I should go into animal training?

Come and train my dog :rotfl::rotfl:




Yours


Calley x

mellymoo74

Didn't go
Too tired

mellymoo74

Not sure that having issue when I eat are the best for my ed

Pollycat

mellymoo74 wrote: »

No Cal it was the hating people comment I was mainly whining about.
This is the friend who went in for surgery and helped me move with a broken gallbladder so er she can talk lol

I am being good
I technically have an interview tomorrow so maybe not that good

Melly
Maybe she can see things more clearly than you can.
If you're rubbing people up the wrong way, it's really not a good time to be working.